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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Creative Recreation LEGATO - Trainers - castle rock, Gabor - Black suede 'Brenda' women's casual ballet pumps, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Prada Sport Sandals - Women Prada Sport Sandals online on Canada - 11400139OC, Cycle Sneakers - Women Cycle Sneakers online on Canada - 11129737VC,

Now,Hobbs - Black 'Georgina' boot, Marc O'Polo Classic ankle boots - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDune - Multicoloured leather 'Anntoinette' mid block heel court shoes, Phase Eight - Tammara T-Bar Peep Toe Shoe, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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  1. Mr/Ms Roxy Rocco High Security,
    Rose

    Versace Sandals - Women Versace Sandals online on Canada - 11421190TT, Bibi Lou Sneakers - Women Bibi Lou Sneakers online on Canada - 11553164BG, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Calvin Klein Jeans GERALD - Trainers - white, adidas Performance ULTRA BOOST UNCAGED - Neutral running shoes - grey, Hush Puppies - Black leather 'Kurt Bernard' Derby shoes, Shoes BARTEK - 18608-1NJ Grey - Velcro - Low shoes - Girl - Kids' shoes, Dune - Black 'Klicks' espadrilles, Merrell BURNT ROCK TURA - Walking trainers - black/dusty olive, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
    Versace Sandals - Women Versace Sandals online on Canada - 11416958MU, Crocs Slippers - Women Crocs Slippers online on Canada - 11096551CW, Valetti Sandals - Women Valetti Sandals online on Canada - 11474285MJ, Plimsolls PRIMIGI - Pay 7 7618000 S Navy - Slided shoes - Low shoes - Girl - Kids' shoes, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Shoes PUMA - Basket Bow 367623 02 Puma White/Orchid/Gray - Slided shoes - Low shoes - Girl - Kids' shoes, Iceberg Trainers - black,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Shoes GEOX - J Plie'D J5455D 000NF C1115 D Graphite - Velcro - Low shoes - Girl - Kids' shoes, Salewa MTN TRAINER GTX - Walking boots - black/sulphur spring, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Regatta - Blue 'lady kota' walking shoes, Vans CLASSIC - Slip-ons - black/pewter, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Clarks - Red nubuck 'Un Plaza Cross' mid wedge heel peep toe sandals, Nike Performance VAPOR 12 ELITE SGPRO AC - Moulded stud football boots - wolf grey/light crimson/pure platinum, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Shoes GEOX - J Android B. B J8244B 014CE C4002 D Navy - Velcro - Low shoes - Boy - Kids' shoes, Geox - Navy 'Damian' knitted trainers, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Patrizia Pepe Sandals - Women Patrizia Pepe Sandals online on Canada - 11410241SU, Blend Trainers - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Miss KG - 'Harrison 2' knee-high boots, Miss KG - Taupe 'Tiger' mid heel ankle boots, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Steve Madden - Silver 'Stecy' high stiletto heel ankle strap sandals, Carvela Comfort - Taupe 'Roxie' high heel ankle boots, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.KIOMI Classic ankle boots - brown, ASICS GEL-NIMBUS - Neutral running shoes - island blue/white/black,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Chipmunks - Boys' navy 'Jaws' wellingtons with 3D shark print, Skechers Sport SIDE STREET ARKLINE - High-top trainers - black, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Rosamunda Sandals - Women Rosamunda Sandals online on Canada - 11565287CI, Lands' End - Girls' pink everyday mary jane shoes, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 7
    AS

    Under Armour ZONE 3 - Sports shoes - charcoal/steel, KIOMI Classic ankle boots - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Pedro García Sandals - Women Pedro García Sandals online on Canada - 11572440DG, Hummel HB TEAM - Trainers - sunflower, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Mephisto - Irwan - Casual Shoes ,Inexpensive, stylish shoes, Carvela - Navy 'Kruise' suedette court shoes, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

  6. 8
    marymary

    Lonsdale - Navy volt 'Sivas' mens trainers, Barker - Brown leather 'McClean' brogues, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursMassimo Dutti Trainers - brown, Shoes SUPERFIT - 3-00234-80 S Blau/Blau - Velcro - Low shoes - Boy - Kids' shoes, .
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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Liu •Jo Shoes Sandals - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sandals online on Canada - 11338831HG, Cruyff TRAXX - Trainers - black,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  7. 9
    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Dune - Black suede 'perru' mid block heel ankle boots,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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