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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Bullboxer High-top trainers - black/brown, ABEO - Avid - Walking ,Inexpensive, stylish shoes, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Dorothy Perkins - Wide fit navy brooklyn t-bar sandals, Vince Camuto - Black 'Stania' mid heel sandals,

Now,Lands' End - Red wide comfort ballet pumps, The Walking Company - Apron - Accessories ,Inexpensive, stylish shoes, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sSkechers REGGEA-VESALO - Mules - black, Shoes MELISSA - Mini Melissa Ultragirl + Bambi 32367 Light Pink - Velcro - Low shoes - Girl - Kids' shoes, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Schutz Sandals - Women Schutz Sandals online on Canada - 11549921QC, Calpierre Sneakers - Women Calpierre Sneakers online on Canada - 11551406LW, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Calvin Klein Jeans IONA - High-top trainers - dark burgundy, A.S.98 Slip-ons - nero,

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    Holly

    Hush Puppies - Brown leather 'Novo' trainers, Dune - Tan leather 'vine' riding boots, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Regatta - Kids Purple Gatlin low walking shoe, Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sandals - Women Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sandals online on Canada - 11454175VW, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Man/Woman CAMPER Gorka Sneaker Outstanding Characteristics, Loake - Purple leather 'Princeton' loafers, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Carvela Comfort - Black 'Sage' low wedge heel sandal, Dune - Natural 'Calabassas' crepe sole desert boot, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Dune - Navy 'Thierry' canvas contrast slip on trainers, Vivienne Westwood Sandals - Women Vivienne Westwood Sandals online on Canada - 11522718PQ, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Birkenstock - White 'Arizona Eva' double strap sandals, D.A.T.E. Sneakers - Women D.A.T.E. Sneakers online on Canada - 11518316JS, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    adidas Performance PREDATOR TANGO 18.4 TF - Astro turf trainers - solar yellow/core black/solar red, Botticelli Limited Sneakers - Women Botticelli Limited Sneakers online on Canada - 11310371PV, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Wallis - Black laser cut detail cross flat sandals, Shoes GEOX - J Bernie A J7411A 0FU54 CF4E3 M Navy/Pistachio - Velcro - Low shoes - Boy - Kids' shoes,
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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Dune - Light pink 'Maggie' ankle strap sandals, Dune - Light pink leather 'Madalenna' high stiletto heel ankle strap sandals,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Dune - Grey suede 'Oshaa' mid stiletto heel ankle boots,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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