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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Mizuno WAVE HAYATE 4 - Trail running shoes - green gecko/white/forest night, Mother Of Pearl Sandals - Women Mother Of Pearl Sandals online on Canada - 11452881QH, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Performance PHANTOM 3 ELITE FG - Moulded stud football boots - light crimson/metallic dark grey/wolf grey/metallic silver, Lotto COURT LOGO 8 SI - Indoor tennis shoes - white/aviator,

Now,ABEO - Bayshore Neutral - Sandals ,Inexpensive, stylish shoes, Valentino Garavani Sandals - Women Valentino Garavani Sandals online on Canada - 11544898PE, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDune - White leather 'Harland' ballet pumps, Saint Laurent Sandals - Women Saint Laurent Sandals online on Canada - 11509740PO, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    House of Hounds OSPREY CROC - Smart slip-ons - brown, Tsd12 Sandals - Women Tsd12 Sandals online on Canada - 11567470IB, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Shoes RIEKER - 15876-45 Grey Combination - Casual - Low shoes - Men's shoes, Reef VOYAGE LUX - T-bar sandals - dark brown,

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    Dune - White leather 'Iyris' mid block heel t-bar sandals, 67 Sixtyseven Sneakers - Women 67 Sixtyseven Sneakers online on Canada - 11542142HV, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Nike Sportswear AIR FORCE 1 '07 LV8 - High-top trainers - flax/outdoor green/light brown, Dansko - Vaughn - Slip Resistant ,Inexpensive, stylish shoes, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Shoes GINO ROSSI - Break MPU038-190-R5XB-5725-0 59/82 - Casual - Low shoes - Men's shoes, Clarks - Natural leather 'Linvale Jerica' mid kitten heel court shoes, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Byblos Sneakers - Women Byblos Sneakers online on Canada - 11510917QV, Carvela Comfort - Rachel high heel ankle boots, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Hotter - Navy 'Ruby' wide fit ankle boots, Skechers - Black 'Go Walk 2' slip-on trainers, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Gentleman/Lady ECCO Enrico Sneaker Have long enjoyed great fame, Maine New England - Tan suede 'Pontoon' boat shoes,
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    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    adidas Originals BERMUDA - Trainers - raw steel/trace blue, Reebok Classic WORKOUT L OW - Trainers - white/grey, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Mantaray - 'Girls' gold sandals, Shoes BUGATTI - 311-59801-4000 Black 1000 - Formal shoes - Low shoes - Men's shoes, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Phase Eight - Red clio weave peep toe shoes, Scarpa MOJITO BASIC - Hiking shoes - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Shoes PRIMIGI - 7192377 D Pink - Velcro - Low shoes - Girl - Kids' shoes, Wallis - Black detailed trainers,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Dune - Light pink 'Linate' sandals,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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