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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Violeta by Mango SIGRID - Mules - navy blue, Patrizia Pepe Sneakers - Women Patrizia Pepe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11369979CO, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Cole Haan Womens Minetta Sandal Citrine/Sandstone 972Xvjeg, Paco Gil ADELE - Classic heels - black bravo,

Now,adidas Originals STAN SMITH - Trainers - footwear white/collegiate navy, Viking FENJA - Wellies - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sBronx Trainers - offwhite/turquoise/yellow, Converse Mens All Star Chelseen White Cloud Cream White 963Nxarc, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567560HT, Oxitaly GIUDITA - Classic ankle boots - matrix fiamma, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Lamica OLIO - Winter boots - kaky, Everybody Slip-ons - carezza blu,

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    Holly

    Under Armour RAPID - Neutral running shoes - scribe blue, Royal RepubliQ DORIC UNBOUND DERBY SHOE - Trainers - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573628OJ, Puma PLATFORM TRACE VARSITY - Trainers - white/metallic gold, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Birkenstock GIZEH - T-bar sandals - magic black, Dor Sneakers - Women Dor Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11526325OU, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Pier One High heeled ankle boots - black, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11492151WL, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Emerica Mens The Romero Troubadour Lowe Grey/White 727Nfrfi, Lost Ink STEVIE SLOUCHY BACK - High heeled boots - navy, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Steve Madden EDITT - High heeled ankle boots - olive, Nike Performance AIR ZOOM RESISTANCE - Outdoor tennis shoes - vast grey/volt glow/gunsmoke/white, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Ted Baker MELVAH - Mules - rose gold, Everybody Sandals - blu, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Pieces PSPALOMA LEATHER SNEAKER - High-top trainers - lotus, Superga 2750 - Trainers - light pink, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Madden Girl ROLLO - High heeled sandals - red, Oxitaly GIUDITA - Classic ankle boots - nero, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    Men's/Women's Keen Newport H2 Special Sale, Dvs Shoe Company Mens Endeavor Black Galaxy 540Uzjdt, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Bruno Premi High heeled sandals - nero/alba, Carvela GASP - High heeled boots - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Gabor Ballet pumps - schwarz, Marco Tozzi High-top trainers - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. The Kooples MULE - Mules - brown, Vaneli Womens Ugoniau Red Soft Nubuk/Match Elastic 116Xfqhn,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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    Julia

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