Anna Field Select High heeled ankle boots - black, Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455999DL, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Polo Ralph Lauren EMMALYN - High heeled boots - black, Peter Kaiser PETZI - Sandals - bijou, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.
The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Calvin Klein Jeans Mens Jensons Black Tumbled Leather 792Kbwgs, Nike Free Womens 4.0 Flyknitm Pink Flash Game Royal White 551Ativc, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11477304HP, Jil Sander Sneakers - Women Jil Sander Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540487GN,
Now,ALDO GALAODIA - Classic heels - black, Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493324LM, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPepen Sole Ankle boots - testa di moro/taupe, Pinko CARRARA VITELLO - Cowboy/Biker boots - black, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
Pavement CHRISTINA - Classic ankle boots - tan,
DNA Footwear BV Boots - black,
Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11339528OI, Tamaris High heeled ankle boots - black, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
Noclaim STELLA - Trainers - cleo bordo, Khrio' Sneakers - Women Khrio' Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11492560KE, Nike Sportswear BLAZER - Trainers - white, D.A.T.E. Sneakers - Women D.A.T.E. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11518658SX, Ebarrito Sneakers - Women Ebarrito Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11458896QO, Salomon X ULTRA 3 MID GTX - Walking boots - hydro/reflecting pond/dubarry, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
Buffalo High heeled sandals - camel, Pier One Classic heels - red, GARMENT PROJECT TOP-Z - High-top trainers - white, DNA Footwear BV Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Rockport Womens Seven To 7 Laser Peep Toe Wedgez Poppy Red 516Icdig, Carvela LILA - Mules - multicolor,
Marcel Ostertag x Tamaris Classic ankle boots - merlot/navy, Gentlemen/Ladies Hunter Original Clog Interest, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? ALDO ETILIVIA - Trainers - black, Puma TE-KU - Trainers - white/marshmallow/team gold, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.
adidas Performance ALPHABOUNCE TRAINER - Sports shoes - grey, Puma SMASH V2 BUCK - Trainers - pomegranate/puma white, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers - Women Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11037728MG, Kennel + Schmenger BIG - Trainers - antracite/schwarz, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.
Pier One Ankle boots - cognac, Candice Cooper Sneakers - Women Candice Cooper Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554563UV, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Gentleman/Lady Bandolino Ambrocio Heel Special Price, KARL LAGERFELD CELESTIA STRAP - Cowboy/Biker boots - black with silver, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!
Puma Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496572FF, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11547790LF, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Nine West Womens Rajah Natural Multi Pony 391Nvwkv, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11482876PV,
Pepen Sole Classic ankle boots - black, Head over Heels by Dune High heeled ankle boots - black, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11478725AN, Woolrich Womens Kettle Creekp Ruby 433Ivewx, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Panama Jack GIOVANNA IGLOO TRAVELLING - Ankle boots - black, Office MODESTY - High heeled sandals - nude, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
Pretty Ballerinas AMI TINO ANGELIS - Ballet pumps - tan, Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers - Women Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11447010QW, Kennel + Schmenger LIZ - Ankle boots - schwarz/grün/rot, Peter Kaiser ODILIE - Classic ankle boots - navy, Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers - Women Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11565564JM, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580739JU, Donna Carolina Platform boots - anthracite, Gabor Ankle boots - pazifik,
Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11566664BR, Nike Performance AIR VAPORMAX - Neutral running shoes - black/coral, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Ted Baker QUEANEM - Slip-ons - black, Pier One Ankle boots - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Ports 1961 Sneakers - Women Ports 1961 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11360730VQ, Anne Klein Womens Ak Sport - Kachine Black Fb 487Bpsxr, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one.
A.S.98 Cowboy/Biker boots - blood, Bass Womens Sadiei Cocoa Gibson Leather 422Hfwdf, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to? Same with masseursShoe The Bear JUNO STUDS - Slip-ons - black, Peter Kaiser QENCE - Ankle boots - intense, .
Office HABIBI - High heeled sandals - black, Even&Odd Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.
I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Love Moschino Sneakers - Women Love Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451272FI, J.CREW CHUNKY HEEL MAYA BOOT STACKED METALLIC - Classic ankle boots - pale gold, I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me.
Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11327943PW, Pedro Miralles Ankle boots - seta nero, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Boutique Moschino Sneakers - Women Boutique Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11326649JN, River Island Trainers - white, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
Bianco Mules - black, Hi-Tec RAVUS VENT LOW WP WOMENS - Hiking shoes - charcoal/cool grey/clematis, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!
Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11531054BL, Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11571315BX, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.DKNY LETTY - Classic heels - silver, Steve Madden SATISFIED - High heeled ankle boots - olive,
Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11473746NO,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
SPM SOHO - Trainers - white,Refresh Cowboy/Biker boots - black,
L' Autre Chose Sneakers - Women L' Autre Chose Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11383871PP,Bronx Cowboy/Biker boots - red,Puma CLASSIC - Trainers - whisper white/metallic gold,
Opening Ceremony Womens Mazzy Sandal Blush Pink 820Kcwxw,Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465302IC,Vic Matiē Sneakers - Women Vic Matiē Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11459652TE,Crime London Sneakers - Women Crime London Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465462JL,Womsh Sneakers - Women Womsh Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508650TH,
Felmini JAYDINE - Cowboy/Biker boots - black/red/white,