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Evan,

Quattrobarradodici Sneakers - Women Quattrobarradodici Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11266061XD, Tamaris Slip-ons - black, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Asics Tiger GEL-MOVIMENTUM - Trainers - feather grey, Steve Madden Womens Ezeke Rose Gold 046Zesgs, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.J.CREW MARINA SLIDE - Mules - seashell, Tamaris Classic ankle boots - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Lemaré Sneakers - Women Lemaré Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11233120TQ, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11531805RP,

Now,Skechers SYNERGY - Slip-ons - black, adidas Originals BERMUDA - Trainers - raw steel/trace blue, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sNero Giardini Sneakers - Women Nero Giardini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11523186KH, Jeffrey Campbell Sneakers - Women Jeffrey Campbell Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11442935QS, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Skechers Sport ENERGY - Trainers - weiß, Dune London QUESTON - Ankle boots - tan, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Cesare Paciotti 4Us Sneakers - Women Cesare Paciotti 4Us Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11509387XX, Polo Ralph Lauren Mens Churston Regent Grey Canvas 349Edwts, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11197598NM, Steve Madden ZYPPA - Ankle boots - black, Puma AVID EVOKNIT MOSAIC EVOLUTION - Trainers - black/violet, D.A.T.E. Sneakers - Women D.A.T.E. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486003HG, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Softclox FARA - High heeled ankle boots - schwarz, Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11522481MO,

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    Holly

    Högl Classic ankle boots - black, Carvela Comfort ALEXA - Peeptoe heels - taupe, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Asics Mens Gel - Kinsei 5 Navy Royal White 136Nwlum, Bullboxer Trainers - white, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Donna Carolina Classic ankle boots - nero, Kwots Sneakers - Women Kwots Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11213722PQ, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).L’Autre Chose Sandals - betulla, Munich Sneakers - Women Munich Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11454275BG, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Scarpa MESCALITO GTX - Hiking shoes - titanium/rose red, Esprit LUNI VEGAN - High-top trainers - khaki green, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Pier One High heeled sandals - light blue, ecco NOYCE - Winter boots - brown, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Office Womens Adorned Multi Strap Tassel Heelsl Red Nubuck 759Eevhu, ASICS GEL-CHALLENGER 9 INDOOR - Indoor tennis shoes - white/charcoal/purple, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Anna Field Winter boots - cognac, Crime London Sneakers - Women Crime London Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469156PQ,
    Birkenstock BOSTON - Slippers - forest, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494537GK, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Menbur High heeled sandals - silver, Dorothy Perkins MUNCH - Cowboy/Biker boots - chocolate, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Nike Sportswear AIR FORCE - Trainers - wolf grey/pure platinum/white, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11414981XH, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    s.Oliver Over-the-knee boots - taupe, Reebok Pump Supreme - Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11383688FL, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.George J. Love Sneakers - Women George J. Love Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11536662UX, Puma SMASH - Trainers - iron gate, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Steve Madden Womens Felizs Floral Multi 952Uvvpz, Kappa TRUST - Sports shoes - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    Call it Spring LOREG - High heeled sandals - dark purple, Faith LINDSAY - High heeled sandals - rose gold, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. L'INTERVALLE DEENAH - High heels - caramel, Under Armour Mens Speedform Fortis Ko Running Shoesb Black/Aluminum/Metallic Silver 304Eutor,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    LEMON JELLY CASS - Wellies - rose,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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