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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Zign Sandals - silver, Vagabond EMILIA - Classic ankle boots - offwhite, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Performance WMNS ZOOM STRIKE - Neutral running shoes - white/wolf grey, Dsquared2 Sneakers - Women Dsquared2 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11399952KV,

Now,Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11331515XD, Man's/Woman's SKECHERS Poppy Tao, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sManuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11531023KK, Circus By Sam Edelman Womens Stasia Black 235Lndxd, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    J.CREW PLATFORM LEOPARD - High heeled sandals - hazelnut/black, Springa Sneakers - Women Springa Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451225XO, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11213513VS, Dsquared2 Sneakers - Women Dsquared2 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11299342QB,

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    Holly

    CMP ELETTRA MID WP - Walking boots - sand, Carvela Comfort ALEXA - Peeptoe heels - taupe, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Converse All Star Ctas Hi - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11574668SN, Samsøe Φ Samsøe Val 9636 - Sneakers - Women Samsøe Φ Samsøe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11444110XN, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Minelli High heeled ankle boots - noir, Adidas Originals Mens Gazelle Indoor Sneakersn Black 123Pvooc, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Nike Cortez Basic Jewel '18 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11535950VT, TOM TAILOR Cowboy/Biker boots - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,KARL LAGERFELD JELLY PEARL SLING - T-bar sandals - black, Lost Ink TAYLA CUT STILETTO - High heels - nude, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Pepen Sole Ankle boots - black, Mcq Alexander Mcqueen Sneakers - Women Mcq Alexander Mcqueen Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11300469CK, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    KIOMI Slip-ons - rose gold, Versace Sneakers - Women Versace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11433276XH, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Adidas Skateboarding Mens Seeleyq Grey/Carbon/Power Red 627Omhyt, Fornarina Sneakers - Women Fornarina Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11476705AE, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Love Moschino Winter boots - fantasy color, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496876DQ, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11334595PU, Nike Blazer Low - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11431199KS,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11543618MO,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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