Royal RepubliQ WAYFARER - Espadrilles - black, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11375599AX, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.DKNY ALICIA - Slip-ons - black/white, Sbicca Womens Lighthouse Blue Multi 874Qegwy, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.
The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Kennel + Schmenger BOBBY - Platform boots - antracite/black, Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11380622NG, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Stokton Sneakers - Women Stokton Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534659ME, Hummel SUPER TRIMM - Trainers - white/peacoat,
Now,DC Shoes TRASE - Trainers - pine, Cafènoir Sneakers - Women Cafènoir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11515259TQ, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDeha Sneakers - Women Deha Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44542045NM, Yes I Do LOVE - Peeptoe heels - gold, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
- Weight: 13 oz
- Model : abb6233
- Qty. : 146
Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580248KE,
Zign Ballet pumps - taupe,
L’Autre Chose High heeled sandals - white, Les Tropéziennes Par M Belarbi Womens Cassier Argent 703Gmxtf, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
Vans Mens Authenticp Eclipse 893Vobsn, Marc O'Polo High-top trainers - taupe, Vibram Fivefingers VI-S - Trainers - black, CLOSED Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Carvela Comfort CALLY - Slip-ons - black, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11551302IO, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
Liu Jo Jeans JESSY - Classic ankle boots - blu, adidas Performance TERREX AGRAVIC SPEED W - Hiking shoes - mottled grey/anthracite/orange, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR OX - Trainers - mason/egret, Aeyde WILL - Ankle boots - black, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Cafènoir Sneakers - Women Cafènoir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11478257SS, Men's/Women's Naturalizer Tinda Seasonal Promotion,
May Sneakers - Women May Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11510702MD, Buscemi Sneakers - Women Buscemi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11473076DW, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11299907AN, Puma Ignite Evoknit Wn's - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11211750SK, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.
Robert Clergerie Sneakers - Women Robert Clergerie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11180032SS, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11571572AV, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).ASICS GEL CUMULUS 20 GTX - Neutral running shoes - indigo blue/amber, Gabor WIDE FIT - Wedge sandals - rame, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.
Kennel + Schmenger LIZ - Ankle boots - rubino, Zign Classic ankle boots - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? New Balance 999 Riviera Pack - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44989954PP, Carvela ALISON - High heels - beige, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!
Steve Madden WEGGY - High heeled ankle boots - black, Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11441246FO, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.DNA Footwear BV High heeled ankle boots - black, Tommy Hilfiger Platform sandals - dark blue,
Sanagens Sneakers - Women Sanagens Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11503540IR, Diesel S-IMAGINEE MID - High-top trainers - grau/schwarz, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Nike SB STEFAN JANOSKI MAX - Trainers - thunder blue/light bone/ocean bliss/obsidian, MIISTA CARLOTA - Platform boots - mahogany, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Zign Ballet pumps - black, Tamaris Boots - lipstick, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
Iro Sneakers - Women Iro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11553418LA, Tsd12 Sneakers - Women Tsd12 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567431OU, Versace Jeans Trainers - oro rosa, New Balance Fresh Foam Boracay V2 - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44908189FK, Crime London Sneakers - Women Crime London Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11266569DD, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11309498FJ, Clarks ENFIELD COCO - Classic ankle boots - black, No Name NITRO JOGGER - Trainers - white,
Coolway Womens Danielav Grey 702Erfzj, New Balance 580 Womens 90'S Heritage - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11088851OB, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR WP - High-top trainers - pale putty/white, Versace Jeans Trainers - camelia, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Lost Ink SIMPLE BUCKLE STILETTO - High heeled boots - grey, CLOSED MID HEEL BOOT - Classic ankle boots - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one.
Annie Womens Sofiai Natural Raffia - Kid Pu 014Zwkri, Karl Lagerfeld Sneakers - Women Karl Lagerfeld Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11277523BJ, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to? Same with masseursMustang Trainers - navy, Shepherd MOA - Slippers - asphalt, .
Cole Haan Womens Minetta Sandal Citrine/Sandstone 972Xvjeg, Ovye' By Cristina Lucchi Sneakers - Women Ovye' By Cristina Lucchi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11333771FJ, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.
I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11566606GT, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11141491RI, I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me.
RAID MAURA - Ankle boots - white, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498461KM, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Esprit VENUS - High-top trainers - gunmetal, Alberto Zago High heels - rosso, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
Nike Air Zoom Mariah Fk Racer - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11382587GV, Kennel + Schmenger JADE - Classic ankle boots - schwarz, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!
Primaforma Sneakers - Women Primaforma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11548657SK, Wallis SAILOR - High heels - navy, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.Ps By Paul Smith Sneakers - Women Ps By Paul Smith Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11501485AX, CTWLK DESPERADO - Classic ankle boots - black,
Skechers Sport SUNLITE - Trainers - light pink/gold,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
Vagabond JESSIE - Ankle boots - red,Nike Classic Cortez Suede - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11382579PX,
Tod's Sneakers - Women Tod's Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11570287XC,Sol Sana SUGAR HEEL - Sandals - red,TOM TAILOR DENIM Cowboy/Biker boots - black,
Tommy Hilfiger METALLIC FLAT T-BAR SANDAL - T-bar sandals - pink,Bruno Premi Ankle boots - nero,Opening Ceremony Sneakers - Women Opening Ceremony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11050076MF,Igi&Co Sneakers - Women Igi&Co Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534958UW,O.X.S. Sneakers - Women O.X.S. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11275926QF,
Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11528035CQ,