Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11551534MS, Dolfie Sneakers - Women Dolfie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11529000CE, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Sergio Rossi Sneakers - Women Sergio Rossi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11563637KK, Högl Classic heels - ocean, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.
The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Invicta Sneakers - Women Invicta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491904JU, Pepe Jeans Womens Indusrty Flag Low Cut 2 Sorbet Lemon 007Sjchf, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Reebok Club C 85 Zip - Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11307527KN, Loeffler Randall ELYN STRETCH CLOSED TOE - High heels - black/tort,
Now,Shoe The Bear TRISH - Ankle boots - dark grey, Ariat Womens Quartz Black Crinkle 544Peydx, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sAlma en Pena T-bar sandals - gold oporto, ecco DAMARA - Sandals - rose dust/coral, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
Coolway LULY - Classic ankle boots - black,
Melissa VIVIENNE WESTWOOD BEACH SLIDE LEOPARD - Pool sliders - black,
Geox Womens D Elina B D54P8B Black 239Seupt, Peter Kaiser TESSI - Slip-ons - sand shimmer/silber corfu, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
Vagabond CAMILLE - Slip-ons - toffee, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11526558JO, Marco Tozzi Cowboy/Biker boots - black, MJUS Cowboy/Biker boots - pencil, Puma Rs-0 Play Winsome Orchid-Biscay Gre - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11541416RO, Tsd12 Sneakers - Women Tsd12 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456310TP, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
Bianco ELASTIC CROSS - Sandals - powder, mtng TACANA - Platform boots - tango black, Lemaré Sneakers - Women Lemaré Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44764687CN, CTWLK TIRANA - Mules - black, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Kanna CAPRI - Platform sandals - amarillo, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11539776EM,
Supra Mens Turin 2 Tones Cvsh Black - Black 445Nmxzs, Selected Femme SFDONNA SNEAKER NOOS - Trainers - white, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Jil Sander Navy Sneakers - Women Jil Sander Navy Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11490835EH, KENDALL + KYLIE ZOE - Classic ankle boots - black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.
Esprit ASTRO - Trainers - brown grey, U.S.Polo Assn. Sneakers - Women U.S.Polo Assn. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491895BV, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Roberto Botticelli Sneakers - Women Roberto Botticelli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11512670XJ, Laura Biagiotti Sneakers - Women Laura Biagiotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11565658WU, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.
Puma COURT STAR - Trainers - forest night-whisper white, Vans CLASSIC SLIP-ON PLATFORM - Slip-ons - mint, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR OX - Trainers - mason/egret, Camper Tws - Sneakers - Women Camper Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11436352OS, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!
Joshua*S Sneakers - Women Joshua*S Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11241716IO, Aeyde WILL - Ankle boots - black, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Élysèss Classic heels - black, Pepe Jeans VERONA - Trainers - date,
adidas Originals PROPHERE - Trainers - footwear white/crystal white, New Balance Womens W980 B Blue/Yellow 089Qyzdl, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
Everyone needs to be on the same page really,mtng FAUSTA - Cowboy/Biker boots - karma black, Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers - Women Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11115011EX, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Chi Chi London SIOBHAN - High heeled sandals - navy, Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554688SF, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
Primabase Sneakers - Women Primabase Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486423IW, New Balance MS574 - Trainers - stone grey, Kennel + Schmenger ELLE - T-bar sandals - schwarz, Ports 1961 Sneakers - Women Ports 1961 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11577376TQ, Kat Maconie NEIVE - High heeled sandals - black, No Name Sneakers - Women No Name Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11305137XU, Marc O'Polo Slip-ons - taupe, Saint Laurent Sneakers - Women Saint Laurent Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11505343DM,
Suecomma Bonnie Sneakers - Women Suecomma Bonnie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11453183JF, Zign High heeled ankle boots - bordeaux, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Pretty Ballerinas ANGELIS - Ballet pumps - leta mordado purple, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11516738PE, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11482270JP, DNA Footwear BV T-bar sandals - bronze, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one.
Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508638GS, Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11073271OU, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to? Same with masseursQuattrobarradodici Sneakers - Women Quattrobarradodici Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573336CO, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11202777KC, .
Jeffrey Campbell FERNROCK - High heeled ankle boots - black, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11351943LN, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.
I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Geox NIHAL - Trainers - black, Supra Sneakers - Women Supra Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11472040TX, I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me.
ALDO VETRANO - High heels - black synthetic, Lacoste REY CAW - Slip-ons - grey/offwhite, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Kennel + Schmenger TOP - Trainers - ombra/silver/creme, Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11569992LM, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
The Kooples Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Diadora Sneakers - Women Diadora Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11484000XT, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!
TOM TAILOR Platform boots - lava, Nike Womens Wmns Air Max 1 Essentialm White/Grey Mist-Dark Grey-Blk 861Veqzu, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.L’Autre Chose Classic heels - black, Liu Jo Jeans GIGI - Slip-ons - silver,
Peter Kaiser KELIANA - Platform sandals - weiß crown,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
Victoria Shoes Trainers - gris,Veja V-10 - Trainers - extra white/nautico pekin,
Ea7 Sneakers - Women Ea7 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11579824NS,KIOMI Ankle boots - black,New Balance 247 Boot - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11393081NL,
Tamaris Ballet pumps - navy,Clocharme Sneakers - Women Clocharme Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11536628RT,Supra Sneakers - Women Supra Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11011514BJ,A.S.98 High heeled ankle boots - nero,Max & Co. Sneakers - Women Max & Co. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11489555JA,
Lanvin Sneakers - Women Lanvin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11556544IB,