Tory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fb

Tory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fb

Evan,

Élysèss Boots - nero, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44989309FD, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Kennel + Schmenger SELMA - Classic heels - pink, Neosens DOZAL - Ballet pumps - black, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Tamaris Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Head over Heels by Dune PHILIPA - Ankle boots - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Man's/Woman's Clarks Desert Boot Quality Queen, Vans UA OLD SKOOL - Trainers - tan,

Now,Nike Air Max 97 Premium - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11557425AM, Buffalo LEMON DROP - Over-the-knee boots - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sOffice MY LADY - Classic heels - white, Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers - Women Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554294EV, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialSynthetics

LiningSynthetic material

InsolePlastic

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeNo padding

Details

Shoe tipOpen

Heel typeFlat

Shoe fastenerSlip on

PatternPlain

Article numberT0711A005-Q11

Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456668HA,

Tory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fbTory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fbTory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fbTory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fbTory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fbTory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fbTory Burch THIN - Pool shoes shoes shoes - black 3f86fb

Sixtyseven KIBA - Classic heels - black,

  1. Spring Court Mens Iso 2V Black 109Ucaap,
    Rose

    Nike Mayfly Woven - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11270401VH, Kennel + Schmenger UP - Trainers - schwarz/weiß, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Paradox London Pink CECILY - High heels - pink, Filling Pieces Sneakers - Women Filling Pieces Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11416912KS, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11477686LL, Lambretta Sneakers - Women Lambretta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11081496FC, Vero Moda VMMETTE BOOT - Classic ankle boots - black, Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465302IC, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
    By Malene Birger MAY - Ankle boots - black, Dr. Martens 2976 W/ZIPS CHELSEA BOOT - Classic ankle boots - black, Vagabond CAMILLE - Ankle boots - bordo, Dolce & Gabbana Womens C19230 Black/Green 845Kteyo, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Levi'S Mens Kiel Dark Blue 052Sdrrm, Steve Madden Mens Heathv Brown 115Rnysc,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Puma TE-KU PRIME - Trainers - pomegranate/white, Saucony Shadow O Vegan W - Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11039026LA, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Pier One Classic ankle boots - black, Nike Sportswear INTERNATIONALIST - Trainers - terra blush/guava ice/summit white/light brown/red sepia, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Chloé Sneakers - Women Chloé Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11327675EO, mint&berry Slip-ons - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Kurt Geiger STRIDE - Sandals - black, New Balance WL220 - Trainers - overcast, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Converse All Star Pro Leather - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11574831LG, Gentlemen/Ladies Born Pepper multiple and different, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Gabriella Rocha Womens Gingerk Gold 754Dgdwq, Pieces PSPALOMA EMBOSSED - High-top trainers - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Glamorous High heeled ankle boots - black gold, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11572788KQ, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Olivia's Bow Sneakers - Women Olivia's Bow Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11354184EC, Vagabond EVE - Classic heels - creme white,
    Eytys Sneakers - Women Eytys Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11361238VA, KARL LAGERFELD GALA STRAP - High heeled sandals - black, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,mtng Trainers - gold, Intentionally Blank TIZO - Classic ankle boots - black/tan, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Haglöfs ROC ICON GT - Climbing shoes - magnetite/jade, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11532195SS, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 6
    Angie

    Blue Les Copains Sneakers - Women Blue Les Copains Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11548040CM, Adidas Womens Response Boosty Solar Pink Black Solar Gold 094Rdnrn, Nike Sportswear CLASSIC CORTEZ - Trainers - university blue, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11157804EN, River Island High heeled sandals - black, Crocs Womens Leigh Graphic Wedgef Nautical Navy/White 033Genvj, Mizuno WAVE LIGHTNING Z4 MID - Volleyball shoes - azalea/white/camellia rose, Skechers BREATHE-EASY-SIMPLY SINCERE - Trainers - black,

  6. 7
    AS

    Lacoste STRAIGHTSET INSULATE CAW - High-top trainers - khaki/light khaki, Lauren Ralph Lauren BRILEY - Moccasins - tomato red, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457114XP, Peter Kaiser HERDIS - Classic ankle boots - schwarz, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Viking NOBLE - Wellies - red, Högl Classic heels - dark blue, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

  7. 8
    marymary

    Fitzwell Womens Malibuw Natural Solid Elastic Fabric 405Sftur, MJUS Cowboy/Biker boots - barolo, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursCrocs BISTRO - Clogs - white, Dorothy Perkins Wide Fit WIDE FIT AMELIE - Ankle boots - black, .
    Pura Lopez Peeptoe heels - black, Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11339381XV, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Office HALLIE - Wedge sandals - soft pink, Henry Beguelin Sneakers - Women Henry Beguelin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11500950OB,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

  8. 9
    Kathy

    Adrienne Vittadini Womens Caterena Black Patent Stretch 557Ypwre, Kennel + Schmenger BOBBY - Platform boots - schwarz, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Stokton Sneakers - Women Stokton Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11310984BR, Oxitaly SILLA - High heels - rubino antik, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
    Versus Versace Trainers - black, Högl Boots - black, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!

  9. 10
    Ruby

    Richmond Sneakers - Women Richmond Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11424862PV, Calvin Klein Mens Willq Navy Leather 260Ulndq, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.Converse All Star C Taylor A/S - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11551492HG, Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11570079IT,

  10. 13
    Kathy

    Vans AUTHENTIC - Trainers - chocolate torte/true white,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
    Alma en Pena Sandals - sand,Clarks Mens Exton Cap Taupe Suede 200Tikzl,
    Refresh Classic ankle boots - black,Chiara Luciani Sneakers - Women Chiara Luciani Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496089HM,Puma SMASH V2 BUCK - Trainers - peacoat/white,

  11. 14
    Julia

    Lamica PANE - Ankle boots - macchiato whiskey,Kennel + Schmenger MALU - Slip-ons - schwarz/weiß,Pony Sneakers - Women Pony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11468276MH,Under Armour PRESS 2 - Sports shoes - brilliance,Nike Performance AIR BELLA TR - Sports shoes - black/white/anthracite,

    mint&berry Slip-ons - nero,