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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Asics Tiger AARON - Trainers - white/dark grey, Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11214746VK, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Gentlemen/Ladies Eric Michael Lena Matching In Color, Ports 1961 Sneakers - Women Ports 1961 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11463091OD,

Now,Proenza Schouler Classic ankle boots - rame, ASICS GEL-DS TRAINER 23 - Neutral running shoes - black/silver, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sO.X.S. Rubber Soul Sneakers - Women O.X.S. Rubber Soul Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457620WK, Man/Woman Aerosoles High Hopes Amoy, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialImitation leather/ textile

LiningImitation leather/ textile

InsoleImitation leather

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeLightly padded

FabricFaux leather

Details

Shoe tipRound

Heel typeBlock heel

Shoe fastenerZip

PatternPlain

DetailsDecorative studs, buckle, elasticated

Article numberRF711A011-Q11

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    Rose

    Versace Sneakers - Women Versace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11429882CU, Vans AUTHENTIC - Trainers - anthracite, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Caprice High heeled ankle boots - red, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11304928PK,

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    Holly

    L’Autre Chose Over-the-knee boots - black, Castañer QUIRCE - High heels - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Skechers Sport ULTRA FLEX CAPSULE - Slip-ons - nature, Birkenstock GIZEH - T-bar sandals - graceful gemm blue, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Nike Performance FREE RN 2018 - Trainers - white/black, Lowa LOCARNO GTX LO - Hiking shoes - eisblau/mandarine, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11546584VQ, Peter Kaiser LIMBA - Classic heels - schwarz, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Bianco Mules - black, Gentlemen/Ladies Dunham Burlington Waterproof Slip On, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Ivanka Trump Womens Radon2 Bianco 2/Black 695Bwxxx, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11314672TH, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,DNA Footwear BV T-bar sandals - camel, Teva INDIO WHIP - Walking sandals - blush, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Fitzwell Womens Aero Black Burnished Leather 719Uvhtq, Kennel + Schmenger MEGA - Trainers - fux/weiß/rot, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Puma SMASH V2 BUCK - Trainers - puma white/puma black, Peter Kaiser MALIN - Classic heels - cabernet,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Nike Air Zoom Fearless Fk 2 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567109GB,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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