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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Tommy Hilfiger LIGHT WEIGHT - Trainers - blue, LAB Heeled mules - imperiali mostaza, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Just Cavalli Sneakers - Women Just Cavalli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573289WH, Calvin Klein Jeans EGLANTINE - Mules - white,

Now,Aldo Mens Schooleri Navy 853Mrzql, Polo Ralph Lauren MAZIE - Ankle boots - bisque, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDune London WIDE FIT WIDE FIT AURRORA - High heels - black, Saucony Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11327063XX, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Esprit OLGA - Sandals - pink, Peter Kaiser HERDI - High heels - purple, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Janet Sport Sneakers - Women Janet Sport Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11058569MI, Camper Sneakers - Women Camper Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11574584KJ,

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    Holly

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    River Island High heeled boots - black, Peter Kaiser MADELEINE - Classic heels - notte sarto, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11265899KC, Jeffrey Campbell ASHCROFT - Classic ankle boots - grey, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Stuart Weitzman Womens Zipitb Pewter Foil 626Fuseu, BOSS BELLA - Ankle strap ballet pumps - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11546513CA, Trussardi Jeans Sneakers - Women Trussardi Jeans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11175207PU, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Steve Madden ODESSA - Over-the-knee boots - black, Puma PLATFORM TRACE - Trainers - black/cerulean, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Nike Free Tr 8 Rise - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493614IP, TOM TAILOR DENIM Trainers - black, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Geox AMALITHA - Sandals - black, Le Coq Sportif Sneakers - Women Le Coq Sportif Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11497160MT,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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