Fiore di Lucia Milano ANIMA - T-bar sandals - platino, Lodi BELGOP - Ankle strap ballet pumps - spark baltico, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495558SD, Diadora Trainers - riviera/ethereal blue/white, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.
The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Patrizia Pepe Sneakers - Women Patrizia Pepe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11432069EW, Vans Mens Authentica Black Chambray Garnet Exclusive 456Shqny, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Fred de la Bretoniere Espadrilles - white, Gentlemen/Ladies Ryka Dash 2 Minimum,
Now,Tory Burch QUILTED MINNIE - Ballet pumps - dust storm/gold, Homers SHARON - Platform boots - crosta pepe, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sASICS GEL-TACTIC - Volleyball shoes - indigo blue/silver, Fitzwell Womens Wendyw Beige Fabric/Mesh 697Xtcli, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
Lost Ink LUCY STRAP STILETTO - High heeled sandals - light blue,
HUB KATHLEEN - Boots - black,
Native JEFFERSON 2.0 LITEKNIT - Trainers - pigeon grey/shell white, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495890TG, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
By Malene Birger MAY - High heels - black, Lola Cruz Classic ankle boots - antracita, Nira Rubens Sneakers - Women Nira Rubens Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11512353CQ, Peter Kaiser NURA - Classic heels - rot, Zign High heels - red, Tamaris Heart & Sole High heeled ankle boots - burgundy, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
Gentlemen/Ladies Vaneli Adora superb processing, Merrell MQM FLEX GTX - Hiking shoes - hyper black, Ovye' By Cristina Lucchi Sneakers - Women Ovye' By Cristina Lucchi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11557066OA, Vidorreta Platform boots - crudo, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.See by Chloé T-bar sandals - black, Dune London OLYVEA - Ankle boots - black,
Fornarina MINA - High heeled ankle boots - red, Peter Kaiser LESKA - Boots - schwarz grana, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Blundstone CLASSIC - Classic ankle boots - olive, Nike Air Huarache Run Ultra Breathe - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11303227NL, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.
Högl Ballet pumps - nude, Hummel SLIMMER STADIL - Trainers - castle rock/ribbon red/bril blue, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498922NW, KIOMI High heeled ankle boots - dark blue, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.
Mustang High-top trainers - graphit, Teva Mens Classic Flip Leather Diamondc Toasted Coconut 418Wpavk, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Coolway EMMA - Mules - black, George J. Love Sneakers - Women George J. Love Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11559807ES, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!
Coliac Martina Grasselli Sneakers - Women Coliac Martina Grasselli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11505820QS, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11314672TH, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11403658BQ, Dune London MONNROW - Sandals - orange,
Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11492308BT, Puma BASKET HEART - Trainers - black/rose gold, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Adele Dezotti Classic ankle boots - bruciato, Nike Mens U Nebula B U54D7Bd Black/Black 238Ehewz, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Karl Lagerfeld Sneakers - Women Karl Lagerfeld Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540562NJ, Bianco Ankle boots - black, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
Nike Sportswear AIR HUARACHE RUN - Trainers - phantom/light bone/summit white, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11299664EP, Tosca Blu BACHATA - Ballet pumps - nero, Pinko CARBONIA - Trainers - bordeaux/black, D-S!De Sneakers - Women D-S!De Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11237015CC, Samsonite Sneakers - Women Samsonite Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469650NM, Kappa SPEED II - Sports shoes - black/white, Clarks ORINOCO CLUB - Classic ankle boots - brown snuff,
Nike Mens Deuce Court Winterd Wolf Grey/Black-White-Volt 063Mthol, Dune London BANKSY - High heels - iridescent metallic, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11527962IE, Gentleman/Lady Nina Cabell elegant form, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Chie Mihara Womens Curi-B Ante Negro 255Xlgdr, Nike Performance AIR ZOOM PEGASUS - Neutral running shoes - black/oil grey/white, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one.
MAI PIÙ SENZA High heeled sandals - black, Vans UA LAMPIN - Trainers - heliotrope/true white, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to? Same with masseursNike Mens Furylite Gp Ttl Orng/Blk-Ghst Grn-Vltg Grn 567Qphzq, Högl High heeled ankle boots - schwarz, .
Manuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11535057CD, Diemme Sneakers - Women Diemme Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11500841FD, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.
I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. KIOMI Classic ankle boots - beige, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496914PW, I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me.
Asics Tiger HYPER GEL LYTE - Trainers - white, Zign Slip-ons - black, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..HUGO MAYFAIR - Classic heels - light beige, Lowa RENEGADE GTX MID - Walking boots - anthrazit/mandarine, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
Gabor WIDE FIT - Boots - schwarz, Bianco PENNY - Slip-ons - white, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!
Moschino Sneakers - Women Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451320VI, Seavees Mens 08/61 Army Issue Low Mojaveu Natural 338Xjyas, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.Giorgio Brato Sneakers - Women Giorgio Brato Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11458545FV, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11522791RF,
Men's/Women's Chaco Z/2® Classic High Quality Product,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
Helle Comfort Womens Zasteril Black Combo 066Yavvn,Lowa SIRKOS GTX - Walking shoes - asphalt/petrol,
LAB Heeled mules - multicolor,Cole Haan Mens Lunargrand Two Gorec Alloy Tropical Print 631Uosad,Lanvin Sneakers - Women Lanvin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11556605EL,
Primabase Sneakers - Women Primabase Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451700TV,Högl Trainers - weiß,Bullboxer Trainers - white,adidas Performance PUREBOOST X TR 3.0 LL - Sports shoes - core black/crystal white/carbon,Lacoste CARNABY - Trainers - white,
Love Moschino Sneakers - Women Love Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11400992AK,