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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.New Balance Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11522112PJ, Bruno Premi High heeled sandals - nero/alba, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.New Balance FUEL CORE NITREL - Trail running shoes - fiji, Gentlemen/Ladies Danner Adrika Hiker Diversified latest design,

Now,Billi Bi Classic ankle boots - black tequila, Simon Scott Sneakers - Women Simon Scott Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11543830GB, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sSoftclox GWEN - Platform boots - schwarz, Musse & Cloud MARVIN - Cowboy/Biker boots - sand, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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  1. Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11549590GI,
    Rose

    Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11376154VW, Pura Lopez High heels - hilton black, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Dsquared2 Sneakers - Women Dsquared2 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11264714IX, Tamaris Heart & Sole High heels - black,

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    Holly

    New Balance Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11403287AX, Call it Spring LEGIVIA - Over-the-knee boots - grey, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Diadora SPEED BLUSHIELD FLY - Multicourt shoes - black/ceramic/white, Lazamani Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Nike SB ZOOM STEFAN JANOSKI - Slip-ons - vintage coral/sail, Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11373420TP, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Eastland Womens Newburyb Brown Leather 173Dbyei, Unisa NUMAR - Platform heels - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    ASICS UPCOURT 3 - Volleyball shoes - white/pixel pink, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11236503IT, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496984EP, Dune London WIDE FIT WIDE FIT PONTOONS - Ankle boots - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Puma SMASH - Trainers - white/rosa, Vero Moda VMNICE - Ankle boots - silver, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11485520SL, Puma COURT STAR - Trainers - puma black-whisper white,
    Tosca Blu LAMBADA - Sandals - nero, Springa Sneakers - Women Springa Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456698TJ, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Lumberjack Sneakers - Women Lumberjack Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11356417BU, Skechers Mens Fairlead Reix Desert 681Nsgob, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?RAID FLAVIA - Classic ankle boots - black, Vans UA OLD SKOOL - Trainers - black/red, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    TOM TAILOR Ankle boots - sand, Diadora Heritage B.Elite W Core - Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11447476DE, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Pinto Di Blu Ankle boots - bleu, Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11241372II, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Mustang Slip-ons - schwarz, Converse ONE STAR HEAVY METALLIC - Trainers - rust pink, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. HUGO HACKNEY - Trainers - white, Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11328307QX,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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