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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Converse All Star All Star Hi Leather - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11097145TA, Jessica Simpson Womens Chandrai Light Natural/Black Regal Cheetah Print Haircalf 237Addjo, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Gabor WIDE FIT - Cowboy/Biker boots - whisky, Propet Womens Eviez Black 052Svbng,

Now,Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11430060RP, Sam Edelman KINZEY - Ankle boots - baltic navy, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sBuffalo Classic heels - gold, Under Armour Mens Speedform Fortis Ko Running Shoesb Black/Aluminum/Metallic Silver 304Eutor, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Nike Free Tr 7 Metallic - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11383031PA, Y-3 Sneakers - Women Y-3 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11404809BN, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Erika Rocchi Classic ankle boots - nero, Men's/Women's PUMA Avid evoKNIT welcome,

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    Holly

    Reebok Classic CLUB C 85 - Trainers - white/green, Colmar Sneakers - Women Colmar Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11303822XN, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Whistles MARQUELLE - Sandals - nude, Replay Sneakers - Women Replay Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493878UE, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Public Desire SALT - High heeled ankle boots - berry, Diane Von Furstenberg Womens Komi Gold Metallic Nappa/Nude Suede 284Onelo, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).River Island High heeled sandals - green, Jessica Simpson LYTONA - High heeled ankle boots - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Puma TSUGI JUN - Trainers - whisper white/white/rose gold, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498998XB, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Merrell Mens Xt2 White On White Black Slate-Yellow 528Mecyd, HUGO MAYFAIR - Classic heels - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Head over Heels by Dune ALEXXA - High heels - purple, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11414004SX, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Versace Sneakers - Women Versace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11461136HW, Michael Antonio Womens Dezs Coral 002Dartc, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Puma Suede Bow - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11490063DC, Alma en Pena High heels - white, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.River Island Platform boots - chocolate, Lauren Ralph Lauren HARLEE - Cowboy/Biker boots - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Pura Lopez High heeled ankle boots - black/metal black, Jeffrey Campbell GUSTINE - Cowboy/Biker boots - black box, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Fenty Puma By Rihanna Sneakers - Women Fenty Puma By Rihanna Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11263054DD, Noclaim GLORY - Trainers - palliette ice,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    WEEKEND MaxMara LIBRO - Ankle boots - anthrazit,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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