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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Colors of California Slippers - bordeaux, Chie Mihara ENJI - Over-the-knee boots - jazz testa, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Carvela Comfort CLAYTON - Mules - gold, New Balance ML373 - Trainers - green,

Now,Tod's Sneakers - Women Tod's Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11541202LH, Aerosoles Womens Savvyp Black Patent 040Xaboe, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sDiesel IMAGINEE S-IMAGINEE MID ON - High-top trainers - weiss/schwarz, Royal Republiq Sneakers - Women Royal Republiq Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11416839JQ, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Chie Mihara URBE - Classic heels - ante rojo, Columbia CALDORADO II - Trail running shoes - poppy red/mountain, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Puma DAMEN - Trainers - winsome orchid, Adidas Performance Womens Brevard Wg Noiess/Nuimet/Blegla 124Kijhc,

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    Holly

    Birkenstock LONDON - Mules - black, MSGM CHECK - High-top trainers - red, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Ted Baker GIELLI - Trainers - black, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11539987TB, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Bianca Di Classic ankle boots - nero, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573593FL, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Mauro Fedeli Sneakers - Women Mauro Fedeli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11506232LI, Reebok GURESU 2.0 - Sports shoes - black/white, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Shy By Arvid Yuki Sneakers - Women Shy By Arvid Yuki Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11531693EV, Divine Follie Sneakers - Women Divine Follie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11562855LI, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11081380AD, La Sportiva TRANGO TRK WOMAN GTX - Walking boots - fjord, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Roberto Cavalli Sneakers - Women Roberto Cavalli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11515780QP, Fendi Sneakers - Women Fendi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11482604ST,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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