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Evan,

Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455999DL, Aerosoles Womens Tricycleo Grey Combo 420Xqsxw, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.La Fille Des Fleurs Sneakers - Women La Fille Des Fleurs Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11578849TG, Brawn's Sneakers - Women Brawn's Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11304640BK, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Bianco Trainers - leopard, Osiris Mens Dividend Grey/White/Blue 545Rjspf, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.lilimill VASCO - Boots - nero, Peter Kaiser ASTRID - Slip-ons - schwarz,

Now,Vans AUTHENTIC - Trainers - desert sage/true white, New Balance 996V3 Tennis Speed Hard Court - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11195671CU, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLotto Sneakers - Women Lotto Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11259363FF, Ports 1961 Sneakers - Women Ports 1961 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11360730VQ, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Onitsuka Tiger CORSAIR - Trainers - oatmeal/caravan, Man/Woman Onex Christina precious boutique, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Nike Performance ROMALEOS 3 - Sports shoes - solar red/black, ONLY SHOES ONLBETTE - High heeled ankle boots - silver,

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    Holly

    Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11066482PQ, Diesel CLEVER S-CLEVER LOW W - Trainers - weiß/gelb, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? KIOMI Mules - purple, Lumberjack Sneakers - Women Lumberjack Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11125813JU, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    GEDEBE KATE - Ballet pumps - fuxia fluo, Men's/Women's New Balance 890v6 superb processing, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).GANT MARIA - Ankle boots - dry sand, River Island High heeled sandals - khaki, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Bianco FASHION - Classic heels - black, Diane Von Furstenberg Womens Komi Gold Metallic Nappa/Nude Suede 284Onelo, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494486JF, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11297334AV, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Selected Femme SFDINA - Trainers - brown, Nike Performance AIR ZOOM VAPOR X HC - Multicourt shoes - white/vast grey, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?EMU Australia IBIZA - Sandals - purple, Under Armour HOVR PHANTOM - Neutral running shoes - ivory, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Bianco CLASSIC CHELSEA - Ankle boots - black, Puma BREAKER - Trainers - black/laurel wreath/firecracker,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Diemme Sneakers - Women Diemme Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11500865XT,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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