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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Puma BASKET SCALLOP - Trainers - whisper white/winsome orchid, Forever New DEBBIE POINTED COURT SHOES - High heels - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Emanuélle Vee Sneakers - Women Emanuélle Vee Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11559019KN, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11335664VH,

Now,HUGO HELLIA - Classic heels - black, Pura Lopez High heels - calf cameo, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sJessica Simpson CARALIN - Mules - yellow shock, DC Shoes COURT GRAFFIK - Skate shoes - navy/royal, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialTextile

LiningImitation leather

InsoleImitation leather

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeCold padding

Details

Shoe tipOpen

Heel typeStiletto, platform toe

Shoe fastenerBuckle/bow

PatternPlain

Article numberFAD11B01O-Q11

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    Rose

    Joshua*S Sneakers - Women Joshua*S Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11341112HN, Lumberjack Sneakers - Women Lumberjack Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11558708DN, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11297441UG, Vans OLD SKOOL - Trainers - licorice/blanc de blanc, Vans Ua Authentic Platform (Pig Suede) - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11559668JV, Love Moschino HEART - Trainers - nero, Stonefly Sneakers - Women Stonefly Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11464924PQ, Converse ONE STAR GRAND SLAM - Trainers - white/green/tangelo, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Erika Rocchi Ankle boots - wine, Iris & Ink Sneakers - Women Iris & Ink Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11453489FE,

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    Holly

    No Name Sneakers - Women No Name Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11565983FH, Billi Bi Ankle boots - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Salewa WILDFIRE - Hiking shoes - magnet/blue fog, DKNY LETTY - Classic heels - silver, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580362UW, River Island High heels - blue, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Bianco Heeled mules - black, Nila & Nila Sneakers - Women Nila & Nila Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11474830OH, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Birkenstock YARA - T-bar sandals - black patent, Nike SB CHECK SOLAR - Trainers - white/black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Les Tropéziennes par M Belarbi HERIPO - T-bar sandals - fuchsia/multicolor, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11214266JM, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Pura Lopez High heeled sandals - glitter argento, Saucony JAZZ ORIGINAL VINTAGE - Trainers - slate blue, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11230796UO, El Naturalista Womens Wakataua N448E White/Bluing 810Snzoy,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,HUF WORLD CUP GALAXY - Trainers - white/navy, Desigual Sneakers - Women Desigual Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11439187MO, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Skechers Womens Liv 99999756 Dark Taupe 023Iuusu, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11499112TF, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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  6. 7
    AS

    Pier One Platform sandals - red, Billi Bi High-top trainers - black/silver, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Pretty Ballerinas Ballet pumps - ema/jeans/fucile, Cassis côte d'azur SPIRIT - Trainers - white, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Pretty Ballerinas ANGELIS - Ballet pumps - peach, Rapisardi BERLINO - High-top trainers - black exit, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Salomon XA ELEVATE - Trail running shoes - lead, mtng EVITA - Cowboy/Biker boots - tango burgundy,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Ted Baker GIELLIE - Trainers - navy,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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