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Evan,

Saucony Shadow Original W - Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446994GK, Salomon ELLIPSE 2 GTX - Hiking shoes - magnet/black/atlantis, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Ecco Golf Womens Tour Golf Hybrid Moon Rock/Orange/Universe/Outsole 350Nuxbz, Felmini COOPER - Cowboy/Biker boots - targoff etwa, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Kennel + Schmenger SHEYLA - High heels - ocean, Lacoste CARNABY EVO - Trainers - burgundy/white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Hunter ORIGINAL CHELSEA - Wellies - black, Diesel Sneakers - Women Diesel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11533821PH,

Now,Under Armour CHARGED BANDIT 3 OMBRE - Neutral running shoes - jupiter blue, Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11329650OS, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sEl Naturalista Womens Espiral Nc25N Porto Oili 619Kzlpo, Les Tropéziennes Par M Belarbi Womens Harpev Tan Multi 261Wtgcs, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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  1. Reebok SUPREME STRAP - Neutral running shoes - volcano/grey/chalk,
    Rose

    SPM DELA - Boots - taupe, Lola Cruz Sneakers - Women Lola Cruz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11553251AU, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Victoria Shoes Trainers - black, Vans CLASSIC SLIP-ON - Slip-ons - olive, mtng KONG - Wedge boots - karma black, Saucony Dxn Trainer "Jewel" Lmt Ed. - Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11019492JE, Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers - Women Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11476075IL, HUF HUPPER 2 - Trainers - blue stone, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Marc By Marc Jacobs Sneakers - Women Marc By Marc Jacobs Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11117082MX, J.CREW TALL QUINN BOOT - Boots - black,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Geox KOLLEEN - Sandals - black /bronze, Saucony Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11509894FF, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Kurt Geiger KNIGHTSBRIDGE CRYSTAL - High heeled sandals - black, Unisa LENEO - Classic heels - abyss, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    SPM AMELIA - Boots - cognac, Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11460283HC, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Chie Mihara MAROMA - Classic heels - magra grape/saigon castano, mtng SAURO - Ankle boots - karma tan/petrolatum tan, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR LIFT RIPPLE - Trainers - white, another project Ankle boots - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Cesare Paciotti 4Us Sneakers - Women Cesare Paciotti 4Us Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11507075DS, River Island High heeled ankle boots - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

    Iceberg Trainers - gold, Puma THUNDER DESERT - Trainers - bright white/grey violet/white, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Buffalo MARZIPAN - High heeled sandals - gold, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11492305VE,
    Nike Performance AIR ZOOM VAPOR X CPT - Indoor tennis shoes - white/vast grey, DKNY WILLOW - Ballet pumps - pink, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Fila DISRUPTOR - Trainers - ash rosegold, New Balance 300 White - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11195708DJ, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Nike Sportswear AIR MAX 1 - Trainers - olive/black/neutral olive/white, Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11328335SV, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 6
    Angie

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    AS

    Nike Sportswear AIR MAX 1 - Trainers - guava ice/metallic red bronze/terra blush/summit white, Steve Madden MARKS - Classic heels - multicolor, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Converse All Star Ct As Hi - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11551215KK, Divine Factory Classic ankle boots - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Miista Womens Bridgette Black/White Gold 151Mxkkv, Even&Odd High heeled ankle boots - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

    Zign Classic heels - nude, Donna Soft Sneakers - Women Donna Soft Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486762UO, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursAsics Tiger GEL VICKKA - Trainers - glacier grey, Vans OLD SKOOL - Trainers - port royale/marshmallow, .
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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Fiori Di Picche Sneakers - Women Fiori Di Picche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11255353CL, Wallis ALANA - Ankle boots - black,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Pura Lopez Classic heels - black,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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