Liu Jo Jeans GIGI - Slip-ons - silver, Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers - Women Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11473920NA, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Stonefly Sneakers - Women Stonefly Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11467211US, Elisabetta Franchi Sneakers - Women Elisabetta Franchi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11523077MR, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.
The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Flower Mountain® Sneakers - Women Flower Mountain® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534696CR, Kennel + Schmenger SELMA - Classic heels - schwarz, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Man/Woman Altra Footwear Solstice export, Nike Sportswear EXP-X14 - Trainers - terra blush/white/light bone/pueblo brown/black,
Now,Massimo Dutti Slip-ons - red, Manuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11539016XH, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sReebok Classic PHASE 1 PRO - Trainers - terrain grey/chalk/pink, E8 BY MIISTA STINA - Classic ankle boots - merlot, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
- COMPOSITIONSoft Leather
- DETAILSbuckle, logo, solid colour, laces, round toeline, flat, leather lining, rubber cleated sole, contains non-textile parts of animal origin
Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11523147KT,
Calpierre Sneakers - Women Calpierre Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11579368TB,
Crime London Sneakers - Women Crime London Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11297839WD, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11563426VS, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
Melissa SOLAR CHERRY - T-bar sandals - black, Marco Womens Anthonyt Bronze/Vieux Fusil 336Cpvms, Juicy Couture Sneakers - Women Juicy Couture Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11537413LK, Nike Mens Slastic 18877V Black/Black-Black 523Qtces, Quattrobarradodici Sneakers - Women Quattrobarradodici Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11434683AT, Saucony Jazz O W - Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446957KB, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
Minelli High heeled ankle boots - marine, Colmar Sneakers - Women Colmar Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11553270IX, Jeffrey Campbell CHARMED - High heeled sandals - clear/gold, Toral Classic heels - rojo, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495946UX, Divine Follie Sneakers - Women Divine Follie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11512010TM,
Pretty Ballerinas Ballet pumps - canan fossil grey, Madden Girl CANDY - High heeled boots - black paris, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? FitFlop CHAI - Ankle boots - black, ecco TRAY HYBRID - Classic ankle boots - black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.
Nira Rubens Sneakers - Women Nira Rubens Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11557603TK, Even&Odd High heeled ankle boots - silver, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Columbia FIRE VENTURE - Walking shoes - black/burnt henna, Adidas Originals Mens Carvilleh Grdech/Grdech/Grdech 059Bcddt, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.
Bianco Heeled mules - black, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498834AU, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11326887LN, Munich Sneakers - Women Munich Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11334119WM, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!
Pedro Miralles High heeled sandals - nero/blanco, Gentlemen/Ladies Trotters Doris authentic, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Steve Madden MARA - Mules - pink, Kennel + Schmenger UP - Trainers - schwarz/weiß,
DKNY DIANA - Classic heels - dark blue, Converse All Star Pro Leather Vulc Glitter - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11461237IT, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Converse All Star Chuck Taylor All Star Hi Dots - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11511249NI, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11280765XE, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Lauren Ralph Lauren HARLEE - Cowboy/Biker boots - deepsaddletan, Manuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11452548PW, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554291QG, Victoria Sneakers - Women Victoria Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11527941NV, KIOMI Slip-ons - black, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11261464WD, Rogue Matilda Sneakers - Women Rogue Matilda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11415173GF, SPM YASSY - Trainers - white, Lauren Ralph Lauren BETHY - Slip-ons - light taupe, Nike Lunarepic Low Flyknit 2 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11382573AW,
LK Bennett DAISIE - High heeled sandals - khaki, ASICS GEL-FASTBALL 3 - Handball shoes - soft sky/diva pink, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.SPM Over-the-knee boots - black, Ca By Cinzia Araia Sneakers - Women Ca By Cinzia Araia Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534640AO, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Birkenstock RAMSES - T-bar sandals - grau, KIOMI High heels - blue, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one.
Under Armour ULTIMATE SPEED - Sports shoes - ivory, Alma en Pena High heels - white, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to? Same with masseursMSGM Trainers - green/multicolor, Merrell Sneakers - Women Merrell Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11460379TH, .
Paloma Barceló Cowboy/Biker boots - grey/black, Ldir Sneakers - Women Ldir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11321998CT, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.
I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11538370VS, ecco BELLA - Boots - black, I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me.
Loeffler Randall JADE KITTEN HEEL MULE WITH BOW - Classic heels - marigold, Neosens CONCORD - Classic ankle boots - ebony, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..ecco SOFT LADIES - Trainers - white, Tommy Hilfiger High heeled sandals - white, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
Veja V-10 - Trainers - multicolor/burgundy/lilas, Högl Classic heels - black, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!
Gianmarco Lorenzi Sneakers - Women Gianmarco Lorenzi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11311267AM, Onitsuka Tiger MEXICO 66 - Trainers - birch/navy, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.Buffalo T-bar sandals - gold light, Gentleman/Lady Tommy Hilfiger Naree3 Lush in design,
Mezlan Mens Rueda Brown 380Aoxwq,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
Esprit ASTRO - Trainers - black,Puma Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11559383WU,
Marc Ellis Sneakers - Women Marc Ellis Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11524881SE,KIOMI Slip-ons - black,Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers - Women Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446934WX,
Kennel + Schmenger TARA - Slip-ons - cedar/gun,Clarks DOVE MADELINE - Ankle boots - navy,Les Tropéziennes Par M Belarbi Womens Henleyv Tan 685Xohqo,No Name Sneakers - Women No Name Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11305046GA,Kurt Geiger Womens Monarch Embellished Slide Flat Sandals Black 464Mfqws,
ALDO CARAA - High heeled sandals - bone,