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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.McQ Alexander McQueen NEW SOLSTICE ZIP BOO - Ankle boots - black, Dkny Sneakers - Women Dkny Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11514840LH, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Mr/Ms New Balance WA365v1 Quality First, Mauro Fedeli Sneakers - Women Mauro Fedeli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11507675CB,

Now,Colors of California Slippers - grey, Senso SADIE - Classic ankle boots - fudge, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sBuffalo High heels - black, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11335622CB, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469583OV, Anne Klein Womens Mylesh Black Reptile 354Mpxog, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Fornarina Sneakers - Women Fornarina Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11223276KP, Serafini Manhattan Sneakers - Women Serafini Manhattan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11471790BO,

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    Holly

    Office FLAUNT - Slip-ons - navy, Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11330127KR, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Keen UNEEK - Walking sandals - dusty olive/brindle, Melvin & Hamilton SUSAN RIO - Ankle boots - ocra, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Pier One Classic heels - mauve, Lumberjack Sneakers - Women Lumberjack Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11125813JU, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Liu Jo Jeans KAREN - High heeled ankle boots - black, Filippa K SILKE MID - Ankle boots - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Högl Over-the-knee boots - black, Replay Sneakers - Women Replay Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493878UE, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Tsd12 Sneakers - Women Tsd12 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11453824KA, Forever New POLLY MID BLOCK HEEL - Sandals - navy, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Steve Madden ZOVA - High-top trainers - black, Clarks LINVALE JERICA - Classic heels - navy, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Man's/Woman's Drew Cologne authentic, Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11521024DI,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Bikkembergs Mens Box 201 Mid Sneaker Bluette/Cognac 367Gztoi, Pura Lopez High heeled ankle boots - militare, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Pretty Ballerinas Over-the-knee boots - metallic red, New Balance Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11571677AA, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Donna Carolina Over-the-knee boots - nero, Diadora GAME L LOW - Trainers - white/olivine, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.mtng CLAUS - Trainers - softy black, Pajar TACEY - Winter boots - nero, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Nike Air Zoom Pegasus 35 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11551925BB, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11536794LC, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11506879WX, New Balance 786V2 Tennis Stability Performance - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11196862XS,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Coolway CRUISE - Ankle boots - black,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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