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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Kennel + Schmenger CAT - Trainers - schwarz, Miu Miu Sneakers - Women Miu Miu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11504499NC, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Schutz High heeled sandals - multicolor/natural, Diesel Sneakers - Women Diesel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491390WJ,

Now,Le Temps Des Cerises Womens New Clery Snake Black 483Hwupc, Jana Boots - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sCaprice Ankle boots - black, River Island High heeled ankle boots - pink, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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Upper materialHigh-quality imitation leather

LiningImitation leather/ textile

InsoleImitation leather

SoleSynthetics

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FabricFaux leather

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Shoe tipOpen

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  1. Diesel Sneakers - Women Diesel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495446FH,
    Rose

    Copenhagen Trainers - dark beige, Dune London BLONDELLE - Ankle strap ballet pumps - ivory, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
    Skechers Sneakers - Women Skechers Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11436797OD, Gabor Boots - green, KIOMI Classic ankle boots - taupe, Peter Kaiser KAROLIN - High heels - powder, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Adidas Mens Zx Fluxy Core Black Texture W 098Midks, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11401589MW,

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    Holly

    Cafènoir Sneakers - Women Cafènoir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11407049SQ, Georgia Rose Womens Lapinouo Vachetta Nero 817Zahak, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Stuart Weitzman ZAPPA - Ankle boots - black, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11110781OD, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Premiata Sneakers - Women Premiata Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486327PS, ALDO ONYWEN - High heeled sandals - silver, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Irregular Choice Womens Throw A Six Heel Black 124Swmgw, Colmar Sneakers - Women Colmar Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11303822XN, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Kurt Geiger STRIDE - Classic heels - black, Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers - Women Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11474594NQ, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? ALDO NAEDIA - Ankle boots - black, Lab By Agla Sneakers - Women Lab By Agla Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496016AM, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Zign High heeled ankle boots - red, Kennel + Schmenger UMA - Classic heels - alu, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Office BRAMBLE - Classic ankle boots - tan, Man/Woman Touch Ups Celeste Special Sale, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 7
    AS

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    marymary

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    Chinese Laundry Womens Neapolitann Winter Pink 882Gxrfh, Love Moschino Sneakers - Women Love Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11450968OT, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. SPM IRIN - Sandals - black, Pier One Ankle boots - cognac,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11334086UQ,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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