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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540631KN, Nike Air Force 1 '07 Premium - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11445811JX, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Tory Burch Pool shoes - brilliant red, Vans Ua Classic Slip-On - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469952XL,

Now,Msgm Sneakers - Women Msgm Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11214348OI, Fiore di Lucia Milano SOHO - Sandals - rosso, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLeather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11531906QT, Nike SB PORTMORE - Slip-ons - white/light bone, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Caprice Boots - black, Bianco Heeled mules - grey, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Vans AUTHENTIC - Trainers - sesame, Steve Madden FLORUSS - Ankle boots - black,

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    Holly

    Paloma Barceló MAFAFA - High heeled sandals - taupe, KIOMI Ankle boots - brown, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Cult Sneakers - Women Cult Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11398247UJ, adidas Golf ADICROSS CLASSIC - Golf shoes - white/icey pink/silver metallic, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11538376AF, J. Renee Womens Alaric Black 857Djgrl, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Gino Sentell® Sneakers - Women Gino Sentell® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457981XV, Gabor Classic ankle boots - schwarz, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11548885AG, Marc By Marc Jacobs Sneakers - Women Marc By Marc Jacobs Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11117133WO, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Converse PRO - Trainers - pale putty/white, Pavement KATY - Ankle boots - green, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    L37 THE NEXT STEP - Classic ankle boots - black, Valleverde Sneakers - Women Valleverde Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11467699PX, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Softclox KATI - Clogs - matrix weiß, Caprice Ballet pumps - red,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Ted Baker GIELLIP - Trainers - white/serenity, Skechers Sport SKYLINE - Trainers - white, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?adidas Originals STAN SMITH - Trainers - chalk white/collegiate navy, DKNY NEPTUNE - Slip-ons - dark grey, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 7
    AS

    Onitsuka Tiger MEXICO 66 - Trainers - white, Puma REBOUND STREET V2 - High-top trainers - forest night/white/iron gate, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.The Editor Sneakers - Women The Editor Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11547601UN, Man's/Woman's Mephisto Helen Mix On sale, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Primabase Sneakers - Women Primabase Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451698WC, Francesco Milano Classic ankle boots - tortora, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Miz Mooz Womens Jocelyn Black 332Qkiwn, Candice Cooper ROCK 04 - Trainers - nero,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Ruby

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    Kathy

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    Julia

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