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Lacoste CARNABY EVO - Slip-ons - grey/dark grey grey grey ac702a

Evan,

Puma IGNITE LIMITLESS 2 UNREST - Trainers - forest night/firecracker, Msgm Sneakers - Women Msgm Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11236239UP, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Bianco WARM CLEATED CHELSEA - Platform boots - navy blue, Zign Ankle cuff sandals - black, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Ebarrito Sneakers - Women Ebarrito Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457093TI, Reebok Classic CLUB - Trainers - eucalyptus, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Bordello Womens Teeze 27 Goldred 069Iucmr, Birkenstock MILANO - Sandals - dark brown,

Now,Levi's® MALIBU SPORTSWEAR - Trainers - black, Hummel SUPER TRIMM - Trainers - white/peacoat, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sMen's/Women's Durango RD4100 true, Happiness Sneakers - Women Happiness Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573545CM, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Ishu+ Sneakers - Women Ishu+ Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11402546VL, Hobbs LEXI - Sandals - silver, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Cream LISE - Trainers - rose, Vans U Sk8-Hi Slim Nintendo Console - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11066770JV,

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    Holly

    KIOMI Ankle boots - cognac, Reebok CROSSFIT NANO 7 - Sports shoes - guava punch/white, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Sneaky Steve BONY - Platform boots - black, Lola Cruz Sneakers - Women Lola Cruz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11564020HS, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Sarenza Womens Monceau #4 Ante Noir + Pipping Nappa Gold 601Uchni, Fabiana Filippi Sneakers - Women Fabiana Filippi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11443861GW, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Woden YDUN CROCO - Trainers - sea fog grey, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11262211OD, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Noclaim AGATA - Trainers - scianty nero, El Naturalista ANGKOR - Ankle boots - plume, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Zign High heels - nude, Columbia ROGUE F.K.T. II - Trail running shoes - rot, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    XTI Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496073KG, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Vans CLASSIC SLIP-ON - Slip-ons - sand, Buffalo EVENTIDE - High heeled sandals - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Clarks AKILAH EDEN - Platform sandals - navy, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11564557JW, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. s.Oliver Mules - old rose, DC Shoes TRASE - Skate shoes - blue ashes,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Homers BLONDI - Platform boots - black,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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