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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Golden Goose Deluxe Brand Sneakers - Women Golden Goose Deluxe Brand Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11579614QG, Bullboxer High heeled ankle boots - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Kappa ORBIT - Sports shoes - grey, Puma SUEDE CLASSIC - Trainers - muted clay/white,

Now,Steve Madden GILLS - Slip-ons - lavender, Steve Madden DOMINIQUE - High heeled boots - red, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sEric Michael Womens Edenv Natural 188Jarhq, Tamaris Ankle boots - black, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    C Label Womens Essenca-5 Blue/Org 839Kplgl, Onako' Sneakers - Women Onako' Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11526222KA, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.KIOMI Ballet pumps - nude, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11555930UO,

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    Holly

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    Versace Jeans Sneakers - Women Versace Jeans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11202362MO, El Naturalista Womens Contradicion Nd31Q Brown 672Qffjr, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).ASICS ALPINE XT - Trail running shoes - slate grey, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11056911EV, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11504072OG, Kurt Geiger Slippers - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Pinko ACRI STIVALE ST.PITONE - Cowboy/Biker boots - black/grigio, Eytys Sneakers - Women Eytys Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11361235BD, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469200TN, Heliā Sneakers - Women Heliā Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508706UR, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Wize & Ope Sneakers - Women Wize & Ope Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11314244AX, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495886KK, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Högl Ballet pumps - schwarz, Merrell MOAB FST 2 GTX - Hiking shoes - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Nike Wmns Nike Roshe One Moire - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11004296XE, Casadei Sneakers - Women Casadei Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11201638HQ, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Vero Moda VMLENE - Ankle boots - black, Dansko Womens Sonnetu Black Full Grain Leather 417Svwle, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Kappa COURT - Trainers - white/green, Dondup Sneakers - Women Dondup Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534420UM,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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