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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Vagabond BREE - Winter boots - black, Touch Ups Womens Bernie White Satin 961Bbwdp, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Womens Air Max 2014Y Light Magenta Reflective Silver Hyper Turquoise 189Jnylg, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496886CX,

Now,Vans Ua Old Skool (Checkerboard) - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11577072RT, Kappa Mens Victoro Navy/Dk Brown/Rainy Day 070Czpab, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sSuperga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567645TE, Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11569733BF, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Lola Cruz Sneakers - Women Lola Cruz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11553275FX, Whistles CORNEL POINTED COURT - High heels - pink, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11359057VA, Sofft Womens Ilissaj Satin Gold Grid 043Ydqek,

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    Holly

    AllSaints LUCIA - Heeled mules - black, Moschino Sneakers - Women Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11451049GO, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? 10 Crosby Derek Lam Womens Campbelld Black 483Mbtqq, Remonte Classic ankle boots - black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11574134FQ, Elena Iachi Sneakers - Women Elena Iachi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11252339ON, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).By Malene Birger MAY - High heels - black, Gabor WIDE FIT - Trainers - bronze, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    mint&berry Classic ankle boots - tan, Faith JING - Sandals - tan, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Coolway Freestyle TAHALI - Trainers - silver, adidas Originals SAMBA OG - Trainers - crystal white/chalk pearl, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. La Corte Della Pelle By Franco Ballin Sneakers - Women La Corte Della Pelle By Franco Ballin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11224612JK, Dorothy Perkins Wide Fit WIDE FIT DALLAS - High heels - nude,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Crocs CROCBAND UNISEX - Pool sliders - red,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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