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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Joshua Sanders Sneakers - Women Joshua Sanders Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11558206DS, Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465841DT, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Royal RepubliQ WAYFARER BASE - Espadrilles - blue, Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567663SI,

Now,Nike Sportswear AIR HUARACHE RUN SD - Trainers - diffused blue/midnight navy/light brown, Skechers Sport SKYLINE - Trainers - gray/lavender, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sVans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11576337VO, Ted Baker Womens Adawle Jewl Heelc Black Suede 642Guurg, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Kennel + Schmenger CANDY - Platform sandals - schwarz, Kennel + Schmenger TOP - Trainers - rot/nebbia/gray, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Brenda Zaro BENETTBO - Ankle boots - black/duala black, Tamaris Classic ankle boots - navy glam,

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    Holly

    Stacy Adams Mens Tailwind Black Denim/Canvas 554Mguta, Lost Ink Wide Fit WIDE FIT OLIVIA FLAT SHOE - Ballet pumps - burgundy, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? ecco SHAPE 45 POINTY BLOCK - Ankle boots - black, Crime London Sneakers - Women Crime London Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11532689TP, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11449795HK, Geneve Sneakers - Women Geneve Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11467712WK, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Leonardo Iachini Sneakers - Women Leonardo Iachini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11522789IA, Clarks Womens Raffi Scente Tan Leather 534Szbti, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Men's/Women's Anne Klein Fabulist Different Styles And Styles, El Naturalista TULIP - Sandals - rioja, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Geneve Sneakers - Women Geneve Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11470305II, s.Oliver Platform boots - olive, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    ecco DAMARA - Sandals - alusilver/gravel, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11564651FU, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Salomon SENSE RIDE - Trail running shoes - sangria/living coral/virtual pink, Gx By Gwen Stefani Womens Dragb Camel/Natural/Black 244Wbxza,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Michael Antonio Womens Grabel Fuchsia 220Zncfq, Maripé High heeled ankle boots - delice nero, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Toral Ankle boots - basket cognac, Enrico Fantini Change! Sneakers - Women Enrico Fantini Change! Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11460046KE, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    ASICS GEL-CUMULUS 20 - Neutral running shoes - mojave/fuchsia purple, Felmini FAME - High-top trainers - dream white, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Lost Ink TANYA PERSPEX INSERT SLINGBACK - High heels - dark navy, Vagabond MINNA - Classic ankle boots - cobalt, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Versace Jeans Trainers - black/gold, Högl High heels - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465306CE, s.Oliver Classic ankle boots - taupe,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

    Marco Tozzi Trainers - grey, mint&berry High heeled sandals - black, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Primabase Sneakers - Women Primabase Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11269046TW, Dune London WIDE FIT WIDE FIT CRISTYN - Classic heels - black, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
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    Kathy

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