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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.P.A.R.O.S.H. Sneakers - Women P.A.R.O.S.H. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11355288JD, Zadig & Voltaire High-top trainers - argent, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Royal RepubliQ PRIME FRINGE - Ankle boots - black, Anna Field Ankle boots - grey,

Now,Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11376231PD, Elie Tahari Womens Sacha Rose/Bone 871Czgvl, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sChiarini Bologna Sneakers - Women Chiarini Bologna Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11533409TR, Tommy Hilfiger Womens Parfaitp Signature/Marine 733Bydzn, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Lost Ink SIMPLE BUCKLE STILETTO - High heeled boots - black, Caprice Ballet pumps - light blue, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Kawasaki Retro Core Backyard Collection - Sneakers - Women Kawasaki Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11229095DR, ecco ASPINA - Walking boots - black, Wize & Ope Sneakers - Women Wize & Ope Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11232293RF, s.Oliver Classic ankle boots - black, Sanita KIMMIE OPEN - Clogs - navy, Naturalizer Womens Caliahx White Leather 848Vukju, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Candice Cooper ROCK SPORT - Trainers - apache blu camoscio navy/base camoscio navy/tampanoto antracite navy, David Tate Womens Nessies White 769Pqssf,

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    Holly

    Reebok Classic PRINCESS RIPPLE - Trainers - whipser teal/white, Steve Madden DAISIE - High heels - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Oxitaly ROSALIA - High heels - lady, Bianco ASYMMETRIC - Classic heels - powder, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    RAS Mules - pink, Pura Lopez Classic heels - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Emporio Armani LOGO HIGH MULE - Heeled mules - nero, Fitflop Sneakers - Women Fitflop Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494262TN, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Rose

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  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Vaneli Womens Talethau Brown Karnak 150Ffoma, Tom Joule WELLYPRINT - Wellies - navy/multicolor,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11251889KH,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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