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Evan,

Nike SB ZOOM STEFAN JANOSKI - Trainers - black/pro purple/ridgerock/light bone, Bianco SPITZ ZULAUFENDE, GESCHLOSSENE - High heels - black, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Les Tropéziennes par M Belarbi Winter boots - gris, Gentlemen/Ladies Saucony Guide ISO Trendy shoes, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Zign Slip-ons - black, Jonak Classic heels - rouge, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Tommy Hilfiger PHOENIX - Trainers - silver, Birkenstock ARIZONA - Mules - black,

Now,Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers - Women Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11232225KM, Crown Sneakers - Women Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11533063MU, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sMarcelo Burlon Sneakers - Women Marcelo Burlon Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11355361RK, Marsèll Sneakers - Women Marsèll Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11555161TX, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialSuede

LiningLambskin

InsoleWool

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeWarm padding

Care instructionsTreat with a suitable protector before wear

Details

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Heel typePlatform boots

Shoe fastenerZip

PatternPlain

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    Rose

    Madden Girl BITSYY - Sandals - red, New Balance Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11411694BU, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.ALDO AURELLA - High heeled ankle boots - black, Emporio Armani CHRISTINA - Trainers - sand/white,

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    Holly

    Samsøe & Samsøe VAL - Trainers - braun, Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers - Women Dibrera By Paolo Zanoli Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446988ML, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567832UF, Michael Antonio Womens Gensenp Silver 172Ckbye, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Peter Kaiser AMIZI - Classic ankle boots - navy, Paco Gil ADELE - Classic heels - violet, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11133425RQ, Tiger of Sweden NEXOE - Sandals - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Man/Woman Bostonian Dezmin Plain Diversified ED Pack, Muratti Womens Muriate Platine 089Pxbyo, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? L'INTERVALLE LEMONT - Classic ankle boots - black, Clarks TRI NATIVE - Trainers - dark grey, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Stuart Weitzman MIRA - Heeled mules - nero, Pantofola D'Oro Womens Fortezza Croco Lowt Silver 038Aewbn, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Diesel Mens Primetivers Snoo-Zeev Blue Nights 572Qjhim, Laura Biagiotti Sneakers - Women Laura Biagiotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11505865BV,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Reebok Floatride Run - Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11371785CH, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11221939CK, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Blue by Betsey Johnson GINA - High heeled sandals - champagne, Vans OLD SKOOL - Trainers - dry rose/true white, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Melvin & Hamilton SELINA - Slip-ons - mogano, New Balance 96 Womens Sophisticated - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11119081WS, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44976666TS, Copenhagen Trainers - olive, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Esprit BIRKIN - Sandals - white, Puma Womens Pulse Xt Geoe Ultramarine 956Srpne, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

    Marc O'Polo Slip-ons - black, Unisa OLIAS - Boots - black, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursReebok Classic ARCTIC BOOT - High-top trainers - black/chalk/camel/pink, Fenty Puma By Rihanna Fenty Trainer Mid - Sneakers - Women Fenty Puma By Rihanna Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11427872VF, .
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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465907AP, Bella-Vita Womens Wowb Black Ostrich Leather 665Hvpbm,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

    Office HARRIS - High heeled sandals - rose gold, Panama Jack Classic ankle boots - bark, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..adidas Originals PROPHERE - Trainers - footwear white/crystal white, Woden YDUN - Trainers - white, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
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    Kathy

    Kennel + Schmenger LOVE - Mules - light silver,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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