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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Ca'Shott Platform sandals - black, Reebok Classic CLUB C 85 GS - Trainers - urban maroon/chalk, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Santoni Sneakers - Women Santoni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11501726BH, adidas Originals PW TENNIS HU - Trainers - footwear white/core white,

Now,XTI Sandals - plata, Nike Performance AIR VAPORMAX FLYKNIT 2 - Neutral running shoes - bordeaux, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLola Cruz Ankle boots - offwhite, Men's/Women's Sofft Wilton To welcome, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Worishofer Womens 284D Fuchsia 799Oizka, Tosca Blu MOSCA - Classic ankle boots - nero, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Diadora CHALLENGE 2 CARPET - Indoor tennis shoes - white/aruba blue, Cycle Sneakers - Women Cycle Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11130292SD,

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    Holly

    Leo Studio Design Sneakers - Women Leo Studio Design Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11101807CN, Converse All Star Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11304836TL, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Reebok AHARY RUNNER - Neutral running shoes - cool shadow/twisted berry, Madden Girl Womens Wickerrr Nude Patent 282Igxqu, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Gabor Ballet pumps - ocean, Replay PIX - Trainers - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11275369KX, Fabi Sneakers - Women Fabi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11518859FX, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    TOM TAILOR DENIM Ankle boots - black, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494298KP, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Nike Sportswear AIR MAX 1 PRM - Trainers - guava ice/yellow/summit white, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11532081SM, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Steve Madden Sneakers - Women Steve Madden Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465423EW, Zign Sandals - yellow, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.MJUS Sandals - rosa, LK Bennett FLORET - Classic heels - power pink,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Viking SEILAS - Wellies - navy, Tsd12 Sneakers - Women Tsd12 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11338240NL, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Tibi FELIX - Classic ankle boots - blue/multicolor, Gabor Ballet pumps - schwarz, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    L37 TWILIGHT - Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Donna Carolina Slip-ons - texas navy, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Fabiana Filippi Sneakers - Women Fabiana Filippi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11443818MO, Shoe The Bear AYA STUDS - Ankle boots - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11335554RB, New Balance WS574 - Trainers - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

    mint&berry Ankle strap ballet pumps - rose, mint&berry Slip-ons - pink panther, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursPlein Sport Sneakers - Women Plein Sport Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508192FO, Shoe The Bear LISA - Trainers - light grey, .
    Crocs FREESAIL CHELSEA - Wellies - black, Clarks DOVE ROXANA - Ankle boots - black, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. D.A.T.E. Sneakers - Women D.A.T.E. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11421145NH, Sam Edelman Sneakers - Women Sam Edelman Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11363036HH,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Alberto Zago High heeled boots - gaietto,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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