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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.K-SWISS EXPRESS LIGHT HB - Outdoor tennis shoes - white, Cole Haan Mens Grant Canoe Pennyz Mason Grey/Pewter 728Acyks, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Liu Jo Jeans Mules - gold, Ports 1961 Sneakers - Women Ports 1961 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11478688GC,

Now,Massimo Dutti Cowboy/Biker boots - multi-coloured, Pepen Sole Platform boots - khaki, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLacoste CARNABY EVO - Trainers - burgundry/white, Valentino Garavani Sneakers - Women Valentino Garavani Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573231VM, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Badgley Mischka Womens Foley Black Suede 874Fditm, Ted Baker AILBE - Trainers - white, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
    Puma TSUGI CAGE - Trainers - island paradies, Caprice Platform boots - cognac, KIOMI Classic heels - dark blue, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11492567RG, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR LIFT - Trainers - pink/driftwood/white, Nike Womens Free 3.0 Flyknit Running Shoesu Dark Obsidian/Brave Blue/Game Royal 316Rprgd,

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    Holly

    KIOMI Classic heels - dark blue, Coolway CRUISE - Ankle boots - win, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? s.Oliver Trainers - black uni, Victoria Shoes Trainers - taupe, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Miss Selfridge CHUNKY CLEATED SOLE - Over-the-knee boots - black, Puma AVID EVOKNIT MOSAIC - Trainers - black-irongate-winsomeorchid, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).My Grey Sneakers - Women My Grey Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11509351WD, Men's/Women's Earth Sparta Different Styles And Styles, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Méliné Womens Mirwaiss Savage Terra 369Ijton, Aku BELLAMONT GAIA GTX - Hiking shoes - sugar paper/acacia, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Ebarrito Sneakers - Women Ebarrito Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11519367DU, Zign Sandals - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Native JEFFERSON 2.0 LITEKNIT - Trainers - white, Filippa K MIRANDA HIGH BOOTIE - Classic ankle boots - black, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Rebecca Minkoff Sneakers - Women Rebecca Minkoff Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11379006DF, Stuart Weitzman Womens Nudistsong Mist Suede 587Ejmym,
    Luca Grossi Slip-ons - parma marone, Maison Martina Sneakers - Women Maison Martina Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11482131DP, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Caprice Heeled mules - rose metallic, Tsd12 Sneakers - Women Tsd12 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11338240NL, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Lost Ink Wide Fit MID LOW CUT COURT - High heels - black, Merrell TERRAN LATTICE II - Walking sandals - atlantis, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11140235MP, DKNY Ankle boots - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Pepe Jeans Womens Aberlady Lurex Black 658Miavk, Enrico Fantini Change! Sneakers - Women Enrico Fantini Change! Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11523050GA, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Puma X Shantell Martin Platform Trace Strap Sm - Sneakers - Women Puma X Shantell Martin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567251IQ, Pier One Sandals - rose, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. LK Bennett STILA - High heels - trench, Naot Footwear Womens Aventuraa Stardust Leather 523Kqpxm,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

    Nike Wmns Nike Air Max Thea Prm - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11137974GH, Peter Kaiser REXA - Classic heels - schwarz, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Neosens MULATA - Sandals - black, Golden Goose Deluxe Brand Sneakers - Women Golden Goose Deluxe Brand Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456126JX, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
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    Kathy

    Weekend High heels - diana fuchsia,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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