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Evan,

Puma Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11529039CL, Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11374927AB, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR HI - High-top trainers - navy, LAB Mules - kaki, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11562680PI, Manuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11511595AX, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Kanna Espadrilles - condesa oro, Versace Jeans Sneakers - Women Versace Jeans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11522726TQ,

Now,Shoe The Bear EMMY SLOUCHY - Wedge boots - dark grey, Zign Slip-ons - black, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPatrizia Pepe Sneakers - Women Patrizia Pepe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11297924UE, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR DENIM HI - High-top trainers - light blue/white/brown, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Taleja Sneakers - Women Taleja Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11225898XN, Elena Iachi Sneakers - Women Elena Iachi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11471999BD, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Cole Haan Mens Meyer Thongb Fatigue 389Iauft, Jack Wolfskin VENTURE FLY TEXAPORE LOW - Hiking shoes - aquamarine,

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    Holly

    Bullboxer Trainers - white, Skechers Performance GO RUN 600 - Neutral running shoes - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Nike Sportswear ASHIN MODERN - Trainers - bleached coral/rust pink/summit white, New Balance WL520 - Trainers - lightcyclone, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Loretta Pettinari Sneakers - Women Loretta Pettinari Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494297BS, Saucony Originals Mens Shadow 5000E Grey/Black 1 525Jdazh, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Merrell VAPOR GLOVE 3 LUNA - Trainers - pomegranate, mint&berry Ballet pumps - light blue, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers - Women Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11157889KC, Boemos Sneakers - Women Boemos Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11388421WO, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Nike Wmns Nike Air Zoom Vomero 11 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11135578QM, Nike SB STEFAN JANOSKI MAX - Trainers - hazelnut/black/ivory/clay orange, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Reebok Classic CLUB C 85 - Trainers - chalk/sahara/white, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11562605AE, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Converse Mens Magazinez Rouge 952Frqyp, Golden Goose Deluxe Brand Sneakers - Women Golden Goose Deluxe Brand Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11510251DT,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Peter Kaiser CELLINA - Classic heels - schwarz, Kanna CARINA - Classic ankle boots - metallic grey, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11467545EF, HUB FUJI - Slip-ons - arona blue/white, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    Dondup Sneakers - Women Dondup Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11293296TN, Pier One Classic ankle boots - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Freewaters Womens Isabellen Fuchsia/Brown 139Uqbrz, D-S!De Sneakers - Women D-S!De Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11236839LE, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Springa Sneakers - Women Springa Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456687EU, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11321614BW, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. L'INTERVALLE DEVOLA - High heels - white, Marc Jacobs Sneakers - Women Marc Jacobs Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11500969DO,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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    Julia

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