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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Vionic Womens Lydia Low Wedge Pumpx Bronze Crocodile 009Osxty, Nike Sportswear AIR MAX 1 PRM - Trainers - vast grey/atmosphere, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.P448 Sneakers - Women P448 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456933GT, Esprit LUNI VEGAN - High-top trainers - khaki green,

Now,Vans AUTHENTIC - Trainers - sunflower, Senso Avery-Ii-Calf-Kid-Leather-Ebony - Sneakers - Women Senso Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11457575TX, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLeather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11197542DP, Nike Performance AIR ZOOM PEGASUS 35 PRM - Neutral running shoes - black/white, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    mtng Sandals - crafo plata, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573696MP, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.D’Acquasparta Sneakers - Women D’Acquasparta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11426910HB, Selected Femme SLFANN - Slip-ons - dark sapphire,

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    Holly

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    Myma Womens Vaerian Carelux Taupe 833Mgopt, Man/Woman Mark Nason Bryson Lush in design, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).ecco ELAINE - Boots - black, Bronx Platform boots - white, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Rockport Womens Total Motion 45Mm Plain Pumpb Skin 032Qmsfk, Studio Pollini Sneakers - Women Studio Pollini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11273724BS, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Isabel Marant Étoile Sneakers - Women Isabel Marant Étoile Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11214391LQ, Dune London OLYVEA - Ankle boots - brown, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Gas Sneakers - Women Gas Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11502755EO, Bruno Premi Ankle boots - nero, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.River Island Classic ankle boots - brown, Helia Boots - silver, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, adidas Originals GAZELLE - Trainers - mesa/footwear white, Clarks Unstructured UN BLUSH GO - Slip-ons - dark grey, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Alma en Pena Over-the-knee boots - siena black, New Balance MS574 - Trainers - burgundy,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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