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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Unisa ALCOT - Ballet pumps - black, Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Women Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11452669BD, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Love Moschino Sneakers - Women Love Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455868WN, Pepe Jeans KLIMPT - Mules - black,

Now,Quattrobarradodici Sneakers - Women Quattrobarradodici Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11433770SK, Keen TARGHEE III - Hiking shoes - weiß/boysenberry, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sSuperga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486493JO, Billi Bi Ankle boots - red tequiola, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Paradox London Pink MARABELLE - Heeled mules - ivory, Calvin Klein ROXY - High heels - red rock, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Unisa KILLY - Classic heels - abyss, N° 21 Sneakers - Women N° 21 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11401471KP,

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    Holly

    Tiger of Sweden SPENGLER - High heels - black, Lowa RENEGADE GTX MID - Walking boots - anthrazit/mandarine, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Men's/Women's Pikolinos Ordino W8M-8692SO Remember, Gentlemen/Ladies Dr. Martens 2976 selection material, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Y-3 Sneakers - Women Y-3 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491138VB, Vans CLASSIC - Slip-ons - black/white, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Patrizia Pepe Sneakers - Women Patrizia Pepe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11548802BL, Anna Field Boots - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Rose

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    Copenhagen Ankle boots - rose, Tahari Womens Nailav Silver Metallic 056Zaukj, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,HASSIA WIDE FIT MALAGA - Classic heels - black, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11439946SR, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Dv By Dolce Vita Womens Camioz Neon Orange Stella 759Hiuzd, MA&LO DORA - Wedge boots - nero, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    New Balance MSX90 - Trainers - white, Koolaburra Womens Maeg Black 650Lzwms, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Nike Air Huarache Run - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44841490GB, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11427347HF, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Nike Classic Cortez Leather Lux - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11211914JS, Mia Womens Virgo Bronze 208Ohhnm, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Jeffrey Campbell Sneakers - Women Jeffrey Campbell Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11503512FF, Colors of California Classic ankle boots - gun,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Ruby

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    Kathy

    River Island Sandals - white,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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