Nila & Nila Sneakers - Women Nila & Nila Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493209IK, Men's/Women's Naturalizer Tinda Seasonal Promotion, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Givenchy Sneakers - Women Givenchy Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11253589UP, Panama Jack IGLOO TRAVELLING - Classic ankle boots - black, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.
The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Neosens Womens Muscat S280 Sand 536Lspao, Everybody Sandals - blu, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Bullboxer High heeled sandals - black, Joshua*S Sneakers - Women Joshua*S Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11481183PH,
Now,Office Mens Bhatti Brogues Black Hi Shine Leather Gold 256Dcwqo, s.Oliver High heels - white, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sTen Points Boots - black, Steve Madden CARRSON - High heeled sandals - blue, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.
Kurt Geiger LUDO - Trainers - silver,
Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11373626VE,
Intentionally Blank NATHAN - Ankle boots - black, Olivia's Bow Sneakers - Women Olivia's Bow Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11545412FC, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
Pons Quintana Platform boots - vino nepal, Adidas Mens Pure Boostr White Black Clear Grey 920Znnjv, Converse All Star Ct As Ox 70'S Canvas - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11247777LX, Bullboxer Boots - cognac, Gentleman/Lady Badgley Mischka Gigi Amoy, Olivia's Bow Sneakers - Women Olivia's Bow Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11381625WR, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo. His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
Haglöfs ROC ICON GT - Climbing shoes - magnetite/jade, New Balance WL574 - Trainers - black, PERLATO Ankle boots - siena noir, Blue by Betsey Johnson LEAH - Ballet pumps - red, Think most men single men who are not in committed relationships go and try strip clubs out. Not all but most at sometime. Don’t know any personally who go once they are in an exclusive committed relationship or married.
Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Kennel + Schmenger ZONE - Slingback ballet pumps - ombra, Janet Sport Sneakers - Women Janet Sport Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11034458OV,
Schutz Mules - toasted nut/platina, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11431208AS, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? TOM TAILOR DENIM Ankle boots - black, Senso POPPY - Heeled mules - garnet, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.
Steve Madden STECY - High heeled sandals - red, Vans U Sk8-Hi Slim Zip Dx Mono Python T - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11141056MG, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Puma Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11334009CK, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11375785VS, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.
Nike Air Huarache Run Ultra - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11227690JH, Rapisardi BLONDIE - Wedge boots - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Steve Madden ROME - Ankle boots - brown, Nike W Tennis Classic Ultra Prm - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11061284KO, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!
Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11396255PQ, New Balance 530 Printed Upper - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11104889MT, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Polo Ralph Lauren COURT - Trainers - taupe, L'INTERVALLE RUPIE - Classic heels - black,
Méliné Womens Mirwaiss Savage Terra 369Ijton, Lacoste UNLINED CAW - Trainers - pink/light tan, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Mustang Shoes Mens Litha Lea Sc M Hellbraun 960Acrvb, Ted Baker AHFIRA - Trainers - tranquility white, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR - High-top trainers - rust pink/black/white, Msgm Sneakers - Women Msgm Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567377DX, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.
Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage. I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.
Asics Mens Dan Gable Ultimate 3Z Black Silver Yellow 875Lmnnm, Manuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11331986KG, Christopher Kane Sneakers - Women Christopher Kane Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11117311AG, Bianco CHUNKY STREET - Trainers - light pink, Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11369676MJ, Ebarrito Sneakers - Women Ebarrito Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11532855XG, Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11538376AF, Fiore di Lucia Milano NICOLE - Peeptoe heels - rosso,
Barbour WILTON - Wellies - navy, Kennel + Schmenger MALU - Ballet pumps - testa di moro/gun, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Peter Kaiser CELINA - Boots - navy, Colors of California Classic ankle boots - pink, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11396096TW, Bc Footwear Womens Dim The Lights Black 961Ylszf, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one.
Even&Odd Slip-ons - rose, Gioseppo Sneakers - Women Gioseppo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11336556AE, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to? Same with masseursPavement IRENE - Slip-ons - black, Paul & Joe Sneakers - Women Paul & Joe Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11505257XA, .
Desigual Sneakers - Women Desigual Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11569812KS, Native JEFFERSON 2.0 LITEKNIT - Trainers - pigeon grey/shell white, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.
I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. River Island Ankle boots - grey, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11501212HP, I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me.
Columbia NEWTON RIDGE PLUS - Walking boots - crown jewel, Bianco SLIP IN - Mules - lilac, I don’t know why she should have the explain to him that she is “thinskinned”? After all these are her feelings, and even though men and women may think “differently” about these things, her feelings are more important than his “fun” if it hits at her inner core..Converse All Star Ct As Hi Velvet Studs - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11356472DS, Coolway Freestyle TAHALI - Trainers - silver, After all this is a marriage of TWO people and he is not going to end up so well in it if he is not sensitive to her..
Bruno Premi Ankle boots - coloniale, Wrangler Sneakers - Women Wrangler Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11465037OF, I wonder if he would have liked her coming up with markers on her butt from male strippers at her batchelor party drunk at 4 am??! Ha!
Keen WESTWARD MID WP - Walking boots - turbulance/ stormy weather, Stonefly Sneakers - Women Stonefly Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11467206KN, Was there something in the original letter about a stripper using a strap-on dildo on a guy at the party? Now I’m not seeing it…Gia refers to it in #2.Tamaris Over-the-knee boots - black, Public Desire RENZO - High heeled ankle boots - white,
Tamaris T-bar sandals - turquoise,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
Touch Ups Womens Theresab Silver Metallic 145Cjrjg,ALDO MADALENE - High heeled sandals - black,
Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11572002FQ,Samsøe & Samsøe VANESSA - Sandals - silver cloud,Khrio' Sneakers - Women Khrio' Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491991WW,
Onitsuka Tiger ULTIMATE 81 - Trainers - mid grey/carbon,MA&LO GUYA - Ankle boots - gold,Pier One Wedge sandals - rose gold,Fornarina TEA - Platform sandals - blu,Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11478632JA,
Peter Kaiser Wide Fit WIDE FIT FASELLE - Classic heels - brasil,