Peter Kaiser CELINA CELINA CELINA - Boots - cabernet a5a54a

Peter Kaiser CELINA CELINA CELINA - Boots - cabernet a5a54a

Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11454580LJ, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11342970BT, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Performance FLEX ESSENTIAL TR - Sports shoes - black/anthracite/white, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11481327JK,

Now,Joshua*S Sneakers - Women Joshua*S Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11337651WS, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567908GO, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sZign Platform sandals - black, Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11507646FL, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialSuede

LiningCombination of leather and textile lining

InsoleLeather

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeCold padding

Care instructionsTreat with a suitable protector before wear

Details

Shoe tipRound

Heel typeFunnel heel

Shoe fastenerSlip on

PatternPlain

Article numberPE211A0AH-G11

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    Rose

    Reebok Classic CLUB C 85 FBT DECON - Trainers - chalk/snow grey, Birkenstock MADRID - Mules - black, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    MJUS Mules - tomato/nero, Vagabond MINNA - Boots - black, Rebecca Minkoff Sneakers - Women Rebecca Minkoff Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11449242CJ, Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11343367SR, Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers - Women Dolce & Gabbana Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11454220UW, Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11571415XU, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11573795QG, Stacy Adams Mens Parkerl Washed Green Suede 240Mosuw,

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    Holly

    Madden Girl Womens Faboo Black 653Duwrd, Teva MIDFORM UNIVERSAL GLOW - Walking sandals - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Even&Odd Slip-ons - red, Reebok Classic PRINCESS - Trainers - dreamy blue/white, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Spring Step Womens Pranzof Camel 343Knymv, Nike Sportswear AIR FORCE 1 07 LV8 SUEDE - Trainers - outdoor green/medium brown/ivory, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Esprit OLGA - Sandals - yellow, Puma Suede Heart Ep Wn's - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11444582SE, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Birkenstock AMSTERDAM - Slippers - red, Mango ROMY - Ballet pumps - pink, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11516381EV, Zign Trainers - taupe, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Copenhagen Trainers - rose, O★M Orzo & Malto Sneakers - Women O★M Orzo & Malto Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11523216EI, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Calvin Klein Mens Portern Pewter Mesh 329Kxvrd, Replay Sneakers - Women Replay Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11493387EC,
    Dune London BANKSY - High heels - gold, xyxyx Ankle boots - black, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Gentleman/Lady Naturalizer Ferris Drip! Drop! Easy to use drops!, HUF HUPPER - High-top trainers - black/white, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Vans Ua Old Skool (Pig Suede) - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11560074AN, Wood Wood ALEX SHOE - Trainers - black, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Fornarina Sneakers - Women Fornarina Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494351EP, Diadora Sneakers - Women Diadora Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11487811VA, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Lacoste Carnaby Evo Mid G316 1 - Sneakers - Women Lacoste Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11107108CK, River Island High heeled sandals - yellow, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Gabor Wedges - dark grey, Skechers Mens Chuck Taylor All Star Monochrome Canvas Hi Mk Brown 206Slbnr, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    Tamaris Slip-ons - lipstick, Tata Italia Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Of course, that brings us to what exactly constitutes sex. And that some strippers and masseurs do.  
    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Dune London KOOL - Platform sandals - tan, Steffen Schraut CHAIN ROAD - Ankle boots - black,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    mint&berry Ankle boots - black,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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