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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Moheda Toffeln ANNA - Clogs - black, Esprit TIA BOOTIE ZIP - Classic ankle boots - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Saucony Shadow Original - Sneakers - Women Saucony Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11464710WC, Schutz High heeled sandals - bright orange,

Now,Serafini Sneakers - Women Serafini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11322969RH, Alberto Zago Ankle boots - nero, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sLeather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11458471NM, Gentlemen/Ladies Steve Madden Maxine Trendy, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    adidas Originals NIZZA - Trainers - pink/footwear white, Royal RepubliQ BORDER RIVET LOAFER - Slip-ons - green, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11500219MG, Desigual Sneakers - Women Desigual Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11506269LH,

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    Holly

    Bianco HOCHFRONT - Ankle boots - white, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469379SG, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Gabor Classic ankle boots - schwarz, New Balance NBX CUSHION SOLVI - Neutral running shoes - light grey, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Lanvin Sneakers - Women Lanvin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11530000GK, Gentlemen/Ladies Trotters Liz selection material, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).KIOMI Classic ankle boots - grey, Puma HEART CELEBRATE - Trainers - infinity, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Merrell BARE ACCESS FLEX - Trainers - rose red, Mustang Shoes Womens Daisyr Bleu/Multi 817Nivoj, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Melvin & Hamilton BETTY - Ankle boots - wood, Noclaim AGATA - Trainers - scianty nero, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Marc O'Polo Platform boots - black, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11526543JS, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Ted Baker GEWELL - High heels - pink, El Naturalista WAKATAUA - Sandals - black,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Dune London PEPPEY - Classic ankle boots - black, Candice Cooper ROCK 02 - Trainers - navy, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Gentleman/Lady Pikolinos Royal W3S-5781 general product, Tamaris Classic heels - vine, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    New Balance Trainers - multicolor, Grey Mer Sneakers - Women Grey Mer Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11560297NV, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.BOSS VERONIKA - Classic heels - black, Faith LUD - High heeled sandals - black, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Pantofola D'oro Sneakers - Women Pantofola D'oro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11228229DE, Pinko Sneakers - Women Pinko Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11504854SF, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

    Blauer OLYMPIA - Trainers - white, Pier One Sandals - black, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursReebok Classic Trainers - parchment/coal/chalk, Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540062OT, .
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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. McQ Alexander McQueen PLIMSOLL PLATFORM - High-top trainers - white, Belstaff ELMDALE - Classic ankle boots - black,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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