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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11552993MX, Steve Madden PIERCING - High heeled sandals - natural, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Pier One High heeled ankle boots - gunmetal, Guess Mens Toledoq Grey 051Ufrge,

Now,Dune London HARLAND - Ballet pumps - black, Men's/Women's OluKai Ohana W Nice, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sReebok Classic WORKOUT PLUS VINTAGE - Trainers - white/practical pink, BOSS OLGA - Trainers - black, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    L’Autre Chose Classic ankle boots - dark green, Man/Woman Teva Hurricane XLT2 moderate cost, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Zign Trainers - white, Nike Sportswear BLAZER - Trainers - white/storm pink,

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    Holly

    Högl Classic heels - black, Mizuno Sneakers - Women Mizuno Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11528346WQ, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? L'INTERVALLE PORTER - Classic ankle boots - taupe, Schutz Sneakers - Women Schutz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11480503DT, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Pedro Miralles TEXAS - Mules - amalfi rojo, ASICS GEL-PULSE 10 - Neutral running shoes - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11400323LL, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491031NK, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    adidas Originals I-5923 - Trainers - clear lilac/crystal white/grey one, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11376006RX, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Ted Baker AVELINN - Mules - sea of clouds, Dansko Womens Theae Orchid/Sand Full Grain 289Bzsfq, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Women Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11452641LE, Toral Ankle boots - lotus rojo, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.LAB Mules - vevey crema, Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Women Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11571481PD,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Loretta Pettinari Sneakers - Women Loretta Pettinari Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11498425OK, Pier One High heeled sandals - black, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Windsor Smith Sneakers - Women Windsor Smith Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11477823PI, Puma Basket Platform Ns Wn's - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11394407NP, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Bruno Premi High heeled ankle boots - prugna, KIOMI Ankle boots - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Ecco Sport Womens Cruise Catalina Sandalc Warm Grey/Ice Flower 560Ahlml, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494938JS, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Lowa LISBOA LO - Trainers - eisblau, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11403869MJ, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11565297DW, FitFlop CHAI - Ankle boots - tumbled tan,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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