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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Franco Sarto Womens Charlizef Pietra Nubuck Leather 247Npydj, Steve Madden PIERCING - High heeled sandals - natural, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.MJUS Cowboy/Biker boots - west, Nike Free 5.0 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44821674OR,

Now,Nike Sportswear AIR MAX 95 - Trainers - white, Ilse Jacobsen Wellies - atmosphere, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sSpringa Sneakers - Women Springa Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11459844KI, mtng CALI - High heeled boots - antil black, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    adidas Originals NMD_R1 STLT PK - Trainers - clear orange/cloud white, Under Armour PRESS 2 - Sports shoes - brilliance, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
    Tamaris Heart & Sole High heeled boots - black, Penny Loves Kenny Womens Shiver Blue 674Wpmtg, Billi Bi Ankle boots - red, U.S.Polo Assn. Sneakers - Women U.S.Polo Assn. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491762CN, Amiana Womens 15-A5270 (Little Kid/Big Kid/Adult) Black Shimmer Metallic 584Gcxyy, Norma J.Baker Sneakers - Women Norma J.Baker Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11476913FR, Only you know what you want and is acceptable in your life. Didn’t you discuss this before you got married.?Only you know what he his like when the drink flows if he drinks.
    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Nike Air Max 90 - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11431214DK, ALDO MAEDE - High heeled boots - black,

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    Holly

    Vans Mens Classic Slip On Shoes Washed Black Black 329Apczr, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11490706LQ, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Manila Grace Sneakers - Women Manila Grace Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486333IA, Sax Sneakers - Women Sax Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11416288PQ, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Reebok Workout Lo Plus - Sneakers - Women Reebok Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567317VR, adidas Performance TERREX SWIFT R2 GTX W - Hiking shoes - rawgreen/carbon/ashgreen, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Cafènoir Sneakers - Women Cafènoir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11439854AM, Clarks DAMEO SWING - Moccasins - navy, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567555IO, Reebok Classic DOUBLE - Trainers - chalk/bare beige, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? U.S.Polo Assn. Sneakers - Women U.S.Polo Assn. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491788AP, Asics Tiger GELSAGA - Trainers - white/samba, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Divine Factory Classic ankle boots - black, Diadora Sneakers - Women Diadora Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567132MU, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Vidorreta Espadrilles - maquillaje, Msgm Sneakers - Women Msgm Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11419025SW,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Zign Platform heels - black, Steve Madden Mens Ditmarz Red 337Fatcm, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?adidas Performance TERREX CMTK W - Hiking shoes - trasca/white/chacor, San Marina High heeled ankle boots - noir, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

    Lumberjack Sneakers - Women Lumberjack Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11570334MN, KIOMI Ankle boots - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.P448 Sneakers - Women P448 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11222669TV, Gabor Ankle boots - rot, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508544EU, Cole Haan Womens Minetta Sandal Citrine/Sandstone 972Xvjeg, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Be Natural Ankle boots - black, Alberto Zago Heeled mules - nero/bianco/rosso,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Ruby

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    Kathy

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