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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Peter Kaiser GESINE - High heeled boots - lupo, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11520448BX, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.George J. Love Sneakers - Women George J. Love Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11537339RC, Asics Tiger GEL-DIABLO - Trainers - stone grey/glacier grey,

Now,adidas Originals NMD_R1 - Trainers - base green/night cargo/solar orange, Converse All Star Ct As Hi Canvas Seasonal - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11335827XT, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sManuel Barceló Sneakers - Women Manuel Barceló Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11257531ML, Sam Edelman Sneakers - Women Sam Edelman Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11562038PC, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Valentino Garavani Sneakers - Women Valentino Garavani Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540535QI, Steve Madden CARRSON - High heeled sandals - blue, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Levi's® WOODS - Trainers - regular black, Reebok Womens Trainfusion 5.0 L Mtb Flat Grey/Polar Blue/Fierce Fuchsia 236Wjdht,

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    Holly

    Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11206178UN, Onako' Sneakers - Women Onako' Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11529154XD, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? River Island High heeled sandals - black, Melvin & Hamilton MAXIMA - High-top trainers - turquoise, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Just Another Copy Sneakers - Women Just Another Copy Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11483866CO, Steve Madden NATIVE - Mules - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11478180GT, Bianca Di Classic ankle boots - nero, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Stonefly STELLA - Trainers - fig red, Superga® Sneakers - Women Superga® Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11571108UW, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11547434UV, Maripé Ankle boots - intermedio nero, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

    Coolway IMID - Over-the-knee boots - taupe, Pier One Classic heels - rose, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Vans AUTHENTIC - Trainers - ochre/true white, River Island Classic ankle boots - white,
    Reebok Classic MCCS - Trainers - marble/iron curtain/grey, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11574097BH, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Roberto Della Croce Sneakers - Women Roberto Della Croce Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456005GS, Polo Ralph Lauren Sneakers - Women Polo Ralph Lauren Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455429GM, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Pierre Darré Sneakers - Women Pierre Darré Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11529066GK, Dune London NEVE - Sandals - nude, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    Refresh Platform boots - black, Zign High heels - black, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Office FLORENTINE - Slip-ons - green, Fiori Di Picche Sneakers - Women Fiori Di Picche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44927797SH, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Won Hundred Sneakers - Women Won Hundred Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11528734PU, KIOMI Espadrilles - black/beige, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Public Desire YURI - High heeled ankle boots - lilac, Voile Blanche Sneakers - Women Voile Blanche Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580823FO,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Melissa Shoes Womens Tastyo Clear 020Bfkck,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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