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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Nike Sportswear AIR HUARACHE RUN SD - Trainers - particle pink/mushroom/sail/light brown, Nike Performance ROSHE - Golf shoes - ocean bliss/white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Men/Women Native Shoes Jefferson Remember, Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11314967CN,

Now,Lanvin Sneakers - Women Lanvin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11556622BU, Womsh Sneakers - Women Womsh Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508632LE, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sClarks CLARKDALE AXEL - Classic ankle boots - black, Joshua*S Sneakers - Women Joshua*S Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11247660TO, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    Peter Kaiser KAROLIN - High heels - schwarz cocco, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11263074RE, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.adidas Originals GAZELLE - Trainers - footwear white, Cuplé Sneakers - Women Cuplé Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11558360NS,

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    Holly

    Tommy Jeans SPORTY - Ballet pumps - black, Converse All Star Ctas Ox Lift Clean - Sneakers - Women Converse All Star Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11445708UR, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? mtng Platform sandals - carol, People For Happiness Sneakers - Women People For Happiness Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11581544RU, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Alma en Pena High heeled sandals - denim blue, Schutz Sneakers - Women Schutz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11480503DT, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Nike Mens Reax Lightspeed Training Shoesl Soar/White/Green Strike/Photo Blue 410Opbpy, Bianco Classic heels - red, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Rose

    Carmela Ankle boots - camel, Billi Bi Slip-ons - whysky, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Diadora Sneakers - Women Diadora Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456714MQ, Anna Field Ankle boots - black,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11385135EO, Glamorous Classic ankle boots - red, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Pier One Sandals - black, Gabor Ankle boots - wallaby, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

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    marymary

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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