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Evan,

SPM LOSURO - Ankle boots - black, Billi Bi 5831 - Platform boots - black, I’ve been married for just over 3 months.Hugo Boss Mens Drespox Toe Cap Oxford Shoes Black 202Qkfrj, Tommy Hilfiger BASIC - High heels - black, Prior to marrying my husband, he had a bachelor party. His bachelor party consisted of the men partying and watching football, and then eventually retiring to his friend’s house for 2 full nude strippers in a show. My husband came home completely messed up at 4am.

The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Man's/Woman's Birkenstock Barrie authentic, Tamaris Over-the-knee boots - lipstick, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Nike Sportswear AIR MAX THEA - Trainers - black/white, Felmini JAYDINE - Cowboy/Biker boots - black/red/white,

Now,Nike Sportswear AIR MAX 1 - Trainers - olive/black/neutral olive/white, J.CREW EVIE BALLET FLATS - Ballet pumps - chocolate sepia, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sTed Baker EMMHA - Slip-ons - pink, Stacy Adams Mens Giancarlo Brown Hornback & Eelskin Print Leather 636Qltpj, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    River Island Wide Fit High heeled ankle boots - black, Stella Mccartney Sneakers - Women Stella Mccartney Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11557984PM, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Novesta Sneakers - Women Novesta Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11496362CT, Pons Quintana Over-the-knee boots - vino tequila,

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    Holly

    Naot Footwear Womens Perfects Volcanic Red Leather 566Luumv, Kurt Geiger PIA - Classic heels - black, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Gabor Classic heels - black, Puma X Sophia Webster Sw Tsugi X Cage Fade - Sneakers - Women Puma X Sophia Webster Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11353857PO, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Lanvin Sneakers - Women Lanvin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11412082IW, Lanvin Sneakers - Women Lanvin Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11319486JD, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).New Balance 996 Classic - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11341521CA, Pedro García Sneakers - Women Pedro García Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11175842VF, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    s.Oliver Ankle boots - red, Nike Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11336672UB, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Puma BOW - Slip-ons - elephant skin/silver cloud, Mango STARK - Trainers - light yellow, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11218971SH, Glamorous Classic ankle boots - red, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Madden Girl PRIMP - High heeled ankle boots - white paris, Bronx High heeled sandals - silver, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    AS

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. New Balance 574S Leather - Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11466889RX, Converse CHUCK 70 OX - Trainers - terracotta red/black/egret,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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    Julia

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