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Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.CLOSED Sandals - emerald, Shoe The Bear ELLA - Trainers - white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Bianco Classic heels - mint, Dc Mens Mikey Taylor Vulce Dark Grey/Battleship 190Cieac,

Now,A.S.98 Cowboy/Biker boots - senape, Bogs CRANDALL TALL - Wellies - dark gray, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sCalpierre Sneakers - Women Calpierre Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11579405QC, Superga 2750 - Trainers - light pink, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialSuede

LiningTextile

InsoleLeather

SoleSynthetics

Care instructionsTreat with a suitable protector before wear

Details

Shoe tipRound

Heel typeBlock heel

Upper detailSide zip

DetailBuckle, elasticated

Shoe fastenerZip

PatternPlain

Article number6CA11M00B-Q11

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    Rose

    XTI Sandals - plata, Vans Ua Old Skool Weave Dx - Leather - Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11231910VQ, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Steve Madden LANDEN - High heeled sandals - blue, Geox Sneakers - Women Geox Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11540469UE,

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    Holly

    River Island Slippers - black, New Balance Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11289831SM, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Replay AIKEN - High-top trainers - black, Nike Air Max 1 Ultra Moire - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44781804QM, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Reebok Classic WORKOUT - Trainers - coal/white, Divine Factory Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Hogan Sneakers - Women Hogan Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567533QN, Men's/Women's Calvin Klein Lazarus Original, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    P448 Sneakers - Women P448 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11456896SI, Isola Womens Fideliaj Sand Goat Patent 280Hqdyk, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Suecomma Bonnie Sneakers - Women Suecomma Bonnie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11533357JD, FitFlop FINO CHAIN - T-bar sandals - silver, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Gabor Ankle boots - rot, ALDO VALECIA - High heeled sandals - brown, And what about his fiance? What is her views on this?
    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11510255FR, Maripé Slip-ons - nero, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Steve Madden Mens Reasonur Grey Leather 786Ywqva, Melvin & Hamilton SUSAN - Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    AS

    Dorothy Perkins ALINA - Ankle boots - black, adidas Originals PROPHERE - Trainers - basic green/night carbon/solar red, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Lodi EBONY - Classic heels - glove nero/opera polar, Gabor Platform sandals - mare, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Salomon SENSE RIDE - Trail running shoes - cerise, Tamaris Slip-ons - black, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. L'INTERVALLE RAFI - Platform sandals - black, Esprit UMA BOOTIE - Classic ankle boots - gunmetal,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    See by Chloé TAMPONATO - High heeled sandals - brown,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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