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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Lotto Leggenda Sneakers - Women Lotto Leggenda Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11131437HJ, Unisa DAREK - Platform boots - black, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.D-S!De Sneakers - Women D-S!De Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11236555EG, Puma Platform Prem Wn's - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11359271OF,

Now,Lola Cruz Sneakers - Women Lola Cruz Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11563793GJ, Chi Chi London ROXANNE - High heels - blush, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sStokton Sneakers - Women Stokton Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11486239FI, MAI PIÙ SENZA High heeled sandals - rouge, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

    TOM TAILOR Ankle boots - navy, Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11390914FJ, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers - Women Soisire Soiebleu Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11312579EK, Santoni Sneakers - Women Santoni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11528146BX,

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    Holly

    Puma BASKET BOW - Slip-ons - white, Dolfie Sneakers - Women Dolfie Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11527966UF, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11230158EP, Liu Jo Jeans LOLA - High heels - beige/black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Adidas Stella Mccartney Mens Dorifera Featherq Black Navy 277Cjeiz, HUGO ADRIENNE - Trainers - natural combi, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Nike SB SOLARSOFT PORTMORE II CNVS PREMIUM - Trainers - gunsmoke/white/blue void, Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11527574ED, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Bronx Ankle boots - black, Guess Sneakers - Women Guess Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11504544VD, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? D.A.T.E. Sneakers - Women D.A.T.E. Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11557955SS, Vagabond CARY - Classic ankle boots - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Menbur High heeled sandals - red, Shoe The Bear HANNAH - Ankle boots - dark grey, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Kennel + Schmenger MALU - Ballet pumps - ocean/black, Calvin Klein Jeans ELEHANNA - Classic heels - dark burgundy, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    Angie

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

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