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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Hogan Rebel Sneakers - Women Hogan Rebel Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11317744QP, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR - Trainers - black/white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Unisa TOLA - Classic heels - zafiro, P448 Sneakers - Women P448 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11494827IB,

Now,Copenhagen Ballet pumps - orange, Rodo Sneakers - Women Rodo Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11572268UG, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPhilippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11565604PN, Giuseppe Zanotti Womens E50219 Black 122Lvlyf, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Rose

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    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Nike Air Max Thea Ultra Flyknit - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11198332XO, Philippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11391459AI,

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    Holly

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    Weekend Max Mara Sneakers - Women Weekend Max Mara Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11570993CC, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495939ML, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Högl High heels - nude, Diadora Heritage Sneakers - Women Diadora Heritage Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11343387MX, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Unisa NIRMA - Ankle boots - black, Santoni Sneakers - Women Santoni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11360318NM, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Muk Luks Womens Full Foot Slippern Pink 098Bulkx, KIOMI Slip-ons - blue, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Even&Odd Cowboy/Biker boots - black, s.Oliver High heeled sandals - black, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Gabor WIDE FIT - Boots - schwarz, ALDO MYLY - High heeled sandals - teal, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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