Hummel SUPER TRIMM TRIMM TRIMM - Trainers - white/peacoat 9d4fb0

Hummel SUPER TRIMM TRIMM TRIMM - Trainers - white/peacoat 9d4fb0

Evan,

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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Calvin Klein Jeans RITZY - Trainers - black, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR - Trainers - black/white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Tamaris Ballet pumps - taupe, Puma Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11469561GA,

Now,Gioseppo Wellies - black, flip*flop PLATEAU CROSS - Heeled mules - steel, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPepe Jeans Womens Aberlady Lurex Black 658Miavk, Man's/Woman's Nike Legend React variety, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

Material & care

Upper materialLeather and imitation leather

LiningTextile

InsoleTextile

SoleSynthetics

Padding typeCold padding

FabricFaux leather

Care instructionsTreat with a suitable protector before wear

Details

Shoe tipRound

Heel typeFlat

Shoe fastenerLaces

Article numberHU315O00A-A11

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    Rose

    Man's/Woman's Walking Cradles Harmony exquisite, Bruno Premi High heeled sandals - platino, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Bronx JAXSTAR - Trainers - black, Mcq Alexander Mcqueen Sneakers - Women Mcq Alexander Mcqueen Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11286750LF,

  2. 3
    Holly

    Pier One High heeled sandals - light blue, Igi&Co Sneakers - Women Igi&Co Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11534958UW, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? ALDO Wide Fit WIDE FIT VILLAROSAW - Sandals - black, Jonak Mules - luxor black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    MA&LO FRIDA - Classic ankle boots - amalfi nero, Nike Air Max 90 Leather - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11575213LD, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).WEEKEND MaxMara UBERTA - Sandals - blue notte, Lost Ink Wide Fit WIDE FIT ALEX LOW CUT COURT - High heels - silver, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Puma 188606-Ignite Ultimate Wn's - Sneakers - Women Puma Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 44999942JP, Reebok Neutral running shoes - black/ash grey/white, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Boutique Moschino Sneakers - Women Boutique Moschino Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11283880UK, Skechers Sport FLEX APPEAL 2.0 - Trainers - black/charcoal /lavender, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

  3. 4
    Rose

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Shepherd EMMY - Slippers - asphalt, Lola Cruz Ankle boots - offwhite, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Puma BOW - Slip-ons - island paradise, Nike Air Max 97 Premium - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11556955TX, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

  4. 5
    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

  5. 6
    Angie

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    AS

    Lacoste STRAIGHTSET INSULATE CAW - High-top trainers - natural/white, Braccialini Sneakers - Women Braccialini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11495218DP, Even as a woman, I completely agree with Evan on this one. It really is as simple as letting it go, or sit there winding yourself up, winding him up and ultimately causing problems in your relationship.Rockport Womens Total Motion Driver Moccasin Peacoat 413Zgiuo, Nike Sportswear CLASSIC CORTEZ - Trainers - university blue, I am assuming that you trusted your husband before you were married, Stella Mccartney Sneakers - Women Stella Mccartney Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11473494CR, DC Shoes TRASE - Trainers - olive, otherwise you wouldn’t have married him… A relationship with no trust only has one outcome, and it’s not a nice one. 

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    marymary

    Desigual WOMAN BOW - Sports shoes - black, DC Shoes TRASE - Trainers - peach parfait, I may be even more out of my depth here than I was with the bondage/domination thing but I think strippers don’t have sex with their clients because they don’t have to?  Same with masseursRoxy RAYSA - Sandals - tan, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11261473BS, .
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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. New Balance WR996 - Trainers - dark blue, A.S.98 High heeled ankle boots - nero,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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    Kathy

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    Kathy

    Clarks Unstructured UN BLUSH GO - Slip-ons - black,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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    Julia

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