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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11430670AQ, Cobb Hill Womens Halleo Taupe 431Ihbgg, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.MIISTA TAISSA - Classic heels - black, Tkees SOLIDS - Pool shoes - pink,

Now,KIOMI Slip-ons - mauve, Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers - Women Liu •Jo Shoes Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11245083GE, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPavement Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Shoe The Bear ALLISON - Classic heels - green, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    HUB PULSE - Trainers - pastel rose/white, Via Roma 15 Sneakers - Women Via Roma 15 Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455854QN, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Yellow Box Womens Brii Heather Fuchsia 497Selkg, Maria Mare CANTY - High heeled ankle boots - nepal rojo rubui,

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    Holly

    Pretty Ballerinas Ballet pumps - grey, Lamica QUAL - Classic ankle boots - nero, Obviously nobody knows the other aspects of your relationship but you…how is your relationship besides this incident? Is he a good husband? Cobb Hill Womens Alexap Khaki 947Vfzan, Dolce Vita DEE DEE - Classic ankle boots - black, Do you enjoy being together, have good communication, same life goals, a good sex life, etc etc? If yes, then I personally would say let this go.

    Steve Madden WEDGIE - Ankle boots - black, Dockers by Gerli Trainers - dunkelgrau/multicolor, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Chiara Ferragni Sneakers - Women Chiara Ferragni Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11279062TV, BOSS VERONIKA - Ankle boots - black, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Munich Sneakers - Women Munich Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11446232OH, Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11393779VD, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Nr Rapisardi Sneakers - Women Nr Rapisardi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11503580IK, Converse Mens All Star Lowg Oxheart Patent 121Hoxei, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Jil Sander Sneakers - Women Jil Sander Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11520021XL, Sam Edelman Sneakers - Women Sam Edelman Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11562038PC, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Oroscuro Sneakers - Women Oroscuro Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11455382BW, Office Womens Winona Cuff Sandal Black Leather 421Uhdgw,
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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Asics Tiger GELSAGA - Trainers - performance black, K-SWISS CLEAN COURT CMF - Trainers - white, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers - Women Mm6 Maison Margiela Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11568473LJ, Collection Privēe? Sneakers - Women Collection Privēe? Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11491405MW, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Dsquared2 Womens Gracet Camoscio Bordeaux 658Kzgob, Colmar Sneakers - Women Colmar Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11552444DX,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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