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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Nike Air Huarache Run Ultra Breathe - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11303227NL, Leather Crown Sneakers - Women Leather Crown Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11453550UC, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11222938GL, Jack Wolfskin VOJO HIKE TEXAPORE - Hiking shoes - light sky,

Now,KIOMI Ankle boots - black, Puma Mens Suede Classice Black White 393Ecurq, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sSteve Madden CONSPIRE - Cowboy/Biker boots - white, Softclox FABIENNE - Clogs - kaschmir grey, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Lost Ink Wide Fit MAE FLAT CUTOUT - Ankle boots - black, Nike Classic Cortez Leather Lux - Sneakers - Women Nike Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11210290SE, Only you know if it’s a dealbreaker or not.
    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Superga 2750 CLASSIC - Trainers - violet light, Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers - Women Giuseppe Zanotti Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11502737DR,

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    Holly

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    Man's/Woman's Me Too Audra Trendy shoes, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR OX - Trainers - washed denim, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Tamaris Platform boots - black, Stuart Weitzman SLIPKNOT - Slip-ons - cabernet, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Vans SK8 MID REISSURE - High-top trainers - checkerboard, MA&LO INAS - Sandals - yellow, Holly, I think the issue is will he now do it again and organise strippers for his mates Stag do? And be involved. If he thinks his wife is ok about it he will or the fiance of the groom.Man/Woman Dunham Winslow Waterproof On sale, Tamaris DESIE - Sandals - black,
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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    A.S.98 POLARI - Ankle cuff sandals - nero,Evan, I am not trying to take away your “winner” category of having women try to effectively communicate with men 🙂 you are quite good at that in most instances..
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