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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Vans CLASSIC SLIP-ON - Slip-ons - black/white, So•Queen Sneakers - Women So•Queen Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11361042KP, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Tod's Sneakers - Women Tod's Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11396536VW, Fila CAGE GORE MID - High-top trainers - white/navy/red,

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    Rose

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    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.Pier One High heeled sandals - red, Clarks DOVE ROXANA - Ankle boots - black,

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    Holly

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    Pedro Miralles Classic heels - foresta, Nike Womens Benassi Duo Ultra Slide Sandals Bright Crimson/White 547Vlrpa, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Bianco FRONT CROSS - Sandals - red, See by Chloé Espadrilles - platino, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

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    Everyone needs to be on the same page really,Vans Sneakers - Women Vans Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11376231PD, Puma PLATFORM TRACE - Trainers - dusty coral/pomegranate, if they think it is an important issue to them. And then each person gets to decides what they want and what is more important.?Diadora Sneakers - Women Diadora Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11567094RA, Studio Modd Trainers - bronze, Different people have different ethics, morals and values. And if your inner core morals and values don’t match, you are not a match.

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Shop ★ Art Sneakers - Women Shop ★ Art Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11501310NF, Gentleman/Lady Crocs Capri Mule good quality,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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