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The issue is that he did not make me aware of the strippers. Later, I saw him bending over and on his ass was a bunch of permanent marker. BUSTED! He kind of came clean, but the timeline of his story and his lack of details make me think it’s worse than I know.Lazamani Cowboy/Biker boots - black, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR LIFT METALLIC - Trainers - black/white, He refuses to discuss it with me. Not to mention that when he came home at 4am, he had sex with me. I feel a little used.Pollini Sneakers - Women Pollini Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11369768TV, Gentlemen/Ladies Propet Jace Amoy,

Now,Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers - Women Twin-Set Simona Barbieri Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11554407AA, Converse CHUCK TAYLOR ALL STAR '70 HI - High-top trainers - pink pop/black/egret, 4 months later, I’m still hurt by it and it eats at me that I have no idea what happened with 2 fully nude strippers in his friend’sPhilippe Model Sneakers - Women Philippe Model Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11376641VX, Ruco Line Sneakers - Women Ruco Line Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11334370HX, house or why he would end up home at 4am instead of either a more reasonable time or the next morning. Seems fishy… not to mention he doesn’t even recall having sex with me when he got home.

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    Do you want to be in a marriage to a man who goes to strip clubs or not? Did you not discuss this before you married him?
    I Understand why you feel used.If you don’t then he gets to choose to do what he likes stay married to you or go to strip clubs when he wants.
    If it’s not that big a deal it’s not that big a deal. If it is then it’s a deal breaker.
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    My neighbour found out her fiance had simulated sex on his stag night Stripper strapped on a dildo on him and rode the dildo.  His brother and all the other married men didn’t go to the strip club only him and his single buddies. She didn’t marry him,. She actually was so distraught she committed suicide a few weeks later.
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    Only you know what is right for you and what you want. You get to choose just like he does.
    Calm, open and honest discussion is the only way. Not telling him what to do or pretending it is ok with you if it isn’t.My Grey Sneakers - Women My Grey Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11328487GD, Lemaré Sneakers - Women Lemaré Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11560574KX,

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    Holly

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    Rene' Caovilla Sneakers - Women Rene' Caovilla Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11332038QT, New Balance Sneakers - Women New Balance Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11403287AX, Maybe you need to state your peace with him, as Evan suggested. Tell him that it made you uncomfortable for X reason, but that you trust him (which is why you married him I assume).Converse Cons Sneakers - Women Converse Cons Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11497675IM, Sergio Rossi Sneakers - Women Sergio Rossi Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11572340LR, He must (I hope) have a lot of great qualities that led you to wanting to marry him in the first place. I would not let the issue of him having strippers at his bachelor party drive you crazy and/or ruin an otherwise perfectly healthy marriage.

    Intentionally Blank LUCK - Classic ankle boots - red, Zign Classic ankle boots - black, Remember, being jealous really hurts you way more than it hurts anyone else. Nobody can make us feel anything…we are responsible for our own feelings. Are you making yourself feel the way you want to? Naturalizer Womens Narlenew White Printed Iguana 625Inrik, DKNY ELIE - Classic heels - black, If not, only you can change that. Best of luck!

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    Mary

    Your jealousy says a lot about you, perhaps counseling would help you to feel more secure about yourself and your marriage.  I agree with Evan on the Black Out of your husband, this is not normal and is a sign of an alcoholic.

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    I agree that you either trust him or you don’t, I also think he should stay away if he knows how much it bothers you. Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers - Women Moa Master Of Arts Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11580256XF, Cafènoir Sneakers - Women Cafènoir Sneakers online on United Kingdom - 11508499GB,  I don’t think I would want to cause this much upset to someone I loved over something not very important to me. 

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